#DearBabyGirl: They lied... You don't deserve marriage!

Konversations with Kay-Dee

I was talking to the Man of God yesterday and it reminded me of a series that @wordsbyezekiel did with his wife where they asked Christian singles a series of questions. One of the questions was why Christian guys won't date Christian girls and this one guy basically said that we don't see our toxic traits and often think that our achievements and purity make us entitled to a man's love and, dare I say, worship. One lesson I hope to teach my daughter is that she isn't entitled to anything in life. Let alone an entire stranger's lifelong devoted love. And when a man chooses to give her that, she should know that it is a mere blessing from God. And if she doesn't get it, it is well. The same goes for friendships. You're a not entitled, Baby Girl. You are not. This also makes women who don't get married feel as though they're not good enough. Guys, we need to stop! @KayDee_Mashile