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We are David and Siobhan Monteith and in 2014 our daughter Grace died the day before she was born. That day everything changed. This podcast will follow our personal ongoing struggle in the new normal, but also be an inclusive conversation with those who have been where we are, for the benefit of those who will be where we are. For their families and friends for the medical staff, organisations, charities and academics that support grieving families. Join us as we explore life after Stillbir ...
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Candles & Community: The Wave of Light Experience
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The Wave of Light is a significant event that brings together families to remember and honor their lost babies, and in this episode, Siobhan and David reflect on their recent experience participating in this poignant occasion. They share how the event serves as a powerful reminder of the enduring love and grief that accompanies baby loss, emphasizi…
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Triggers, trauma and trigger warnings
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This podcast episode delves into the complex topic of triggers experienced by those in the Babylost community. Siobhan and David explore various triggers—sights, sounds, smells, and memories—that can unexpectedly evoke intense emotional responses related to their loss. They discuss the nature of these triggers, how they manifest physically and emot…
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This podcast episode delves into the sensitive topic of what to say to parents who have experienced baby loss, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging the child's existence and the profound impact they had on their parents' lives. Siobhan and David share personal stories and reflections, highlighting the comfort that can come from positive affi…
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This episode focuses on the sensitive topic of what not to say to parents who have experienced the loss of a baby. Siobhan and David share their personal experiences and insights regarding the comments that can be hurtful or dismissive during such a painful time. They discuss how certain phrases, often meant to comfort, can instead diminish the sig…
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Holding Too Tight: Encanto & Parenting After Loss
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This episode explores the profound themes of generational trauma and the challenges of parenting in the wake of loss, as illustrated by the Disney movie Encanto. Siobhan and David delve into how the film resonates with their experiences, particularly the struggle of holding on too tightly to their living children after the loss of their daughter, G…
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Catastrophising: The Unexpected Consequence of Babyloss
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Catastrophizing can take on a new dimension for those who have experienced the trauma of baby loss, as explored in this heartfelt discussion between Siobhan and David. They delve into how the suddenness of losing a child can create an intense fear of potential dangers in everyday situations, amplifying feelings of anxiety and panic. Siobhan shares …
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Handling the Awkward Questions - 'Do You Have Kids?'
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This podcast episode delves into the sensitive and often challenging question of how to respond to inquiries about children after experiencing baby loss. Siobhan and David share their personal experiences and strategies for navigating such conversations, highlighting the importance of acknowledging both living and deceased children without feeling …
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Babyloss Awareness Week - Wave of Light
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Siobhan and David reflect on Babyloss Awareness Week and it's climax - the Wave of Light; and ask the question - is it worth it? Thanks to the parents of Angel babies - Ella, Rosie, Hayden, Maya-Hope, Ava, Little Bump, Ronnie and Grace for their participation in this episode. you can contact us at info@graceinaction.org.uk Find us on Social Media -…
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Babyloss Awareness Week - Babyloss affects The Economy
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You may not know it but as long as you are part of the economy - stillbirth affects you. An in depth report showed that a stillbirth costs the economy 3 times the cost of an uncomplicated live birth. In this episode we unpack what that actually means You may not know it but as long as you are part of the economy - stillbirth affects you. You can re…
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Babyloss Awareness Week - Babyloss affects MENTAL HEALTH
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“So don’t mind my tears Or the look in my eye cos my normality has drifted into the sky” David Monteith Dreams don’t die, physical and mental pain don’t just fade away. Stillbirth is an event, a moment in time that gives birth to a new universe of trauma. Join us as we unpack the ongoing effects of Stillbirth My Spoken Word piece about grief and Me…
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Babyloss Awareness Week - Babyloss affects Black & Asian People
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The figures around Black and Asian babyloss have been around for a while and yet it's only in the last 2 years that the horrific statistics have been highlighted and talked about. We explore why these figures are so out of proportion and what can be done about it. You can find an infographic of the MBRRACE Maternal report here #babylossawarenesswee…
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Babyloss Awareness Week - Babyloss affects FRIENDS/COLLEAGUES
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In this episode we discuss how to deal with friends and how friends can deal with us I don't know a single babyloss parent who hasn't lost a friend or is struggling with those relationships in some way since their baby died. To those who couldn't make the adjustment - so be it - it's a pain we will learn from. To those who feel our pain almost as d…
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Babyloss Awareness Week - Babyloss affects FAMILY
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We see you...the Grandparents, the Brothers and sisters, the aunts and uncles, the cousins. Those of you who care not just for us but for our dead children. We see you and we love you for your love and for the grief you too have to process. Grandparents we see the fact that you grieve not just your grandchild but you child who is becoming a differe…
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Babyloss Awareness Week - Babyloss affects SIBLINGS
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The effects of Babyloss and grief ripple out from the centre and siblings are in its path. Alannah was 3 when her little sister died. She was 3 not stupid she knew there was a baby and we couldn’t and wouldn’t hide from her the reality of the situation. Kira never met her older sister but she knows who she is. Grace is simply part of her everyday l…
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Babyloss Awareness Week - Babyloss affects PARENTS
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In Episode 1 of their BabyLoss Awareness Week Mini Podfest Siobhan and David of Grace in Action explore how Babyloss affects Parents beyond the obvious. Ending with 3 tips to help parents. you can contact us at info@graceinaction.org.uk Find us on Social Media - https://www.facebook.com/GraceInAction14 https://twitter.com/graceinact https://www.ins…
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Babyloss Awareness Mini Podfest Trailer
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Over Babyloss Awareness week we will be having a mini podfest. A short episode which will highlight the people and situations affected by babyloss beyond the obvious. We start on Friday the 9th OctoberOleh Grace in Action
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Meet David & Siobhan Monteith parents to 3 living and 1 dead child. After the death of their daughter Grace, they Founded Grace In Action to help raise awareness of the issues around Babyloss. In this trailer they share their mission their lives and what this podcast is about. you can contact us at info@graceinaction.org.uk Find us on Social Media …
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