Welcome to "Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor" – the podcast where old money meets new manners, and your Auntie Kiki spills the tea on all things etiquette, with a side of laughter and a dash of aristocratic charm! Join the illustrious Kiki Astor, author of smutty romance novels and grande dame of decorum, as she tackles your most pressing etiquette questions with the finesse of a debutante twirling at a ball. Wondering about the historical roots of fork placement or the proper way to declin ...
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What is true wealth? It may be more attainable than you think
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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we explore what it truly means to live a rich life, far beyond the balance in your bank account. Kiki delves into the essence of true wealth through the lens of the old money lifestyle, uncovering how timeless values, understated luxury, and intentional living can elevate your daily experience. …
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These books will make you look richer, smarter, and more popular
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Sometimes it's not the clothes that make the man. It's not which model of Barbour jacket you have chosen, or where you get your tweed suit. What is between your ears is much more important than the Rolex watch on your wrist or the Stubbs and Wooton slippers on your feet. As AUntie Kiki says, education is often free. Obviously, much of this come thr…
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Modern manners? Which etiquette rules are outdated, and why
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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, hostess Kiki Astor dives into the fascinating world of etiquette and manners, exploring which traditional etiquette rules may now feel outdated and why. From rigid social scripts to the nuances of dining decorum, Kiki examines how changing societal values, cultural shifts, and modern social skills are transform…
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What's in a name? Trending vs "old money" baby names, name history and etiquette
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What's in a Name? Our moniker might be our most important attribute, influencing how we succeed and how we are perceived. In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, Kiki Astor dives into the delightful—and sometimes awkward—world of names. Starting with the hottest naming trends for 2025, sourced from Nameberry, Kiki explores how some baby names go in a…
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Awkward but necessary: addressing microaggressions
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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, your hostess, etiquette maven and romance author Kiki Astor, dives deep into the world of microaggressions—those subtle, often unintentional comments and actions that can have a profound impact on individuals and communities. Although they may seem small, microaggressions accumulate, leading to emotional distre…
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Chic Gatherings: The secrets to affordable "old money" style entertaining
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Have you been wanting to entertain at home, but you are intimidated? Have you been thinking of repaying your friends in kind for dinner invitations or jaunts aboard their yachts, but you can't afford an evening in a restaurant? In this episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, romance author and amateur etiquette expert Kiki Astor will inspire you …
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Old Money Aesthetic and fashion etiquette for Fall/Winter
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Winter is coming! Some of you dread this turning of the seasons, and some of you celebrate it. Those of you who love winter, admit it- it's all about the fashion, isn't it? But with more layers come more problems and questions: how does one layer? Which socks are we suposed to be wearing? Can I wear trendy chocolate brown with black? Which shoes ar…
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What is good taste, and how do you cultivate it?
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In this enlightening episode, your Auntie Kiki steps out of her romance novelist slippers and leans into her identity as an etiquette coach and amateur social anthropologist. With a rich background in old money society, interior decorating, fashion, and history, Kiki Astor explores the essence of good taste and how to cultivate it in today’s world.…
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Old Money vs New Money: Navigating Class & Etiquette in Modern Society
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In this episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, your host Kiki Astor ,etiquette maven and romance author, dives deep into the enduring tension between old money and new money, exploring the historical roots and modern-day dynamics of wealth, class, and social status. From feudal societies where aristocratic lineage dictated power, to the Industri…
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Oops! The most awkward, cringe-worthy social slip-ups, and how to recover from them
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It's hard not to dwell on embarrassing public slip-ups, but according to psychologists, etiquette experts, and social anthropologists, moving on elegantly is more important than you might think. In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we’re diving into the issue of the most awkward and cringy of all: those embarrassing public faux pas…
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High Seas, High Drama: Yacht Etiquette, Style, and Scandals (Yachting part 2)
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Set sail into luxury and high society with this cheeky episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor! If you love aspirational travel, the old money aesthetic, and juicy scandals at sea, this is the perfect listen. In this episode, Kiki Astor, etiquette maven and author of Low Season in St. Tropez—a romance novel about a yacht interior designer, obv…
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Yachts, Part 1: Tradition, Style, and Etiquette on the High Seas
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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we're pulling back the velvet rope to reveal the hidden world of yachting—the ultimate symbol of wealth and power. Join your Auntie Kiki, your trusted guide through the nuances of high society, as she uncovers thehistory of recreational yachting, spills the secrets behind yacht naming convention…
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Back the school...the old money way?
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In this episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, your Auntie Kiki, Kiki Astor, author and ex rich person, dives into the old money approach to back-to-school season, a time that can bring up a host of classic etiquette concerns. With her children having successfully navigated private schools, boarding schools, and beyond, Auntie Kiki reflects on t…
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Preppy vs Old Money: Battle of the aesthetics?
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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, your hostess Kiki Astor, author, ex rich person, and etiquette maven, dives into the differences between the Preppy and Old Money aesthetics. From their deep-rooted histories to their cultural significance today, Kiki unpacks why these styles have endured and evolved over time. Learn the key differences between…
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Travel Chic on the Cheap: Snob-Worthy St. Tropez Tips for the Nouveau Pauvre
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A crucial question for you, darling: Do you, do you, do you, do you Saint Tropez? As the iconic song states, everyone in the world crams themselves into St Tropez in the summer, and so, too, might you. Kiki is back from her summer break, and in this first episode of the new season of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, otherwise known as Kiki Astor's No…
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Never be intimidated in high society again- How to talk to anyone
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Join Kiki Astor on a very useful episode of "Awkward Etiquette" Delve into the intricate world of high society as romance author and etiquette maven Kiki breaks down the archetypes you're likely to encounter at prestigious cocktail parties and galas. From the elegant Grande Dame to the charming Debutante, the eclectic Eccentric Artist to the formid…
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Elegance is refusal? The art and etiquette of saying no
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In this delightful episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, your charming host, Kiki Astor, explores the timeless elegance of old money aesthetics. Join Kiki as she reveals the secrets to embracing simplicity and sophistication in both your wardrobe and home decor. Discover how to achieve that coveted, understated luxury look with tips on sele…
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Summer House Etiquette for hosts and guests
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Summer House Etiquette for hosts and guests In this episode of the Awkward Etiquette Podcast, we dive into the do's and don'ts of summer house etiquette for both hosts and guests, especially for those living or emulating an "old money" lifestyle or old money aesthetic. Join us as we explore how to create a welcoming environment, handle tricky situa…
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Old money aesthetic beauty: what everyone gets wrong
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"Old money beauty." When most people, especially on social media, think of this, they are envisioning a beauty from a vintage Ralph Lauren ad. That vision is reductionist and couldn't be further from the truth. In this episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, your charming hostess, author and etiquette maven and ex rich person, TikTok personality …
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Inheritance woes, trophy wives, and trust fund babies
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In this intriguing episode of "Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor," we delve into the fascinating world of inheritance words, trophy wives, and trust funds, particularly within the realm of old money families. Join Kiki Astor as she unravels the complex social etiquettes and unspoken rules that govern the lives of the wealthy elite. Discover the nua…
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Where do you summer? How to vacation like old money
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Auntie Kiki is going on a trip! (No she is not "summering"- because she's Nouveau Pauvre!) But this got me thinking- old money people don't do summer like the rest of the population. Where do they go, what do they do, how do they speak of it and most importantly, how do you make your povvo staycation sound Old Money, how do you make your basic trav…
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Packing secrets of socialites: elegant travel tips
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Are you traveling soon, or wish you were? In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor: - Discover why packing light can revolutionize your travel experience and make travel less stressful. - Dive into Auntie Kiki's exclusive packing hacks: Learn the tricks to maximize your space and and options. - Curate your chic carry-on capsule wardrobe…
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Graceful goodbyes: a funeral etiquette guide
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Yes, saying goodbye to loved ones is sad, but a funeral doesn't have to be all doom and gloom. Remember, it's about honoring the dearly departed and comforting the loved ones and family left behind. Get ready to lighten up the somber mood with Kiki Astor on this episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast! We're diving into the unexpected world of fun…
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Old money rite of passage: boarding school
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Join Kiki Astor in a revealing exploration of the quintessential old money rite of passage: boarding school. In this enlightening episode, Kiki delves into the traditions, expectations, and unique social dynamics that shape the experiences of those groomed in the world of old money. Discover the secrets behind the prestigious institutions that have…
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Cue the pregnant pause: the awkward etiquette of pregnancy
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Get ready to chuckle and cringe in equal measure on the latest episode of "Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor" as host Kiki Astor tackles the confounding and sometimes cringe-worthy world of pregnancy etiquette. From belly pats to baby showers, Kiki dishes out witty insights and practical advice on navigating these sticky social situations. Join Kik…
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Airplane etiquette: fly the polite skies
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Join your Auntie Kiki, etiquette expert, romance novelist, and nouveau pauvre jet setter Kiki Astor, on a journey through the dos and don'ts of airplane travel in this insightful episode of the "Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor" podcast. Whether you're a seasoned jet-setter or a first-time flyer, mastering airplane etiquette is essential for a smo…
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From old money to nouveau pauvre or rags to riches? Navigating financial ups and downs in style
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Join Kiki Astor on a riveting episode of Awkward Etiquette as she delves into the complexities of transitioning between extreme socioeconomic statuses. In this thought-provoking discussion, Kiki shares her personal journey and insights on what it's truly like to experience the rollercoaster ride from riches to poverty and vice versa. From the nuanc…
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Secrets of old money aesthetic homes: Interior design hacks
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Join your Auntie Kiki, Kiki Astor, on the latest episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast as she delves into the art of interior design, offering expert tips to transform your home into a haven of sophistication and elegance. Discover the secrets to infusing your home with the timeless charm and refinement of the old money aesthetic. From classic f…
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Sorry, not sorry- The delicate art of the apology
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Sometimes "sorry" is not an apology, but rather an insult. In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we delve into the fine art of apologies. Tune in and explore the intricacies of saying sorry, including knowing when to apologize and when it's best to refrain. Discover essential etiquette tips on navigating social situations with grace…
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Old Money vs New Money Travel, Travel Dupes, Instagram Travel, and Palm Beach
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Modern Jet-Set Travel in the age of Instagram: Travel Tensions and the Palm Beach Identity Crisis Join romance author and etiquette maven, ex rich person Kiki Astor, as she celebrates the launch of the Palm Royale TV show on Apple TV and the release of her latest book, "Pink Palazzo," set against the opulent, tropical backdrop of Palm Beach. When y…
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The etiquette of insults: how to maintain your dignity around rude people
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Discover the Art of Graceful Comebacks and Social Poise in this 'The Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor' Podcast Episode. Respond to Insults with panache and confidence! Join etiquette expert Kiki Astor as she delves into the question of navigating insults with finesse. Learn the intricacies of maintaining your dignity while facing rude remarks, exp…
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The etiquette of dress codes, from the sublime to the ridiculous
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Dive into the world of dress codes with your hostess, your Auntie Kiki Astor, on this episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast. From deciphering what dress codes entail to calling them out when they seem absurd, discover expert tips on navigating, adopting and enforcing dress standards gracefully. Gain valuable insights from the timeless wisdom of …
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Cocktail Party Confidence: Kiki Astor's Hacks for Overcoming Social Anxiety
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Join Kiki Astor in this enlightening episode of Awkward Etiquette as she delves into the delicate topic of social anxiety. Discover why cocktail parties can be the perfect playground for those battling social anxiety, offering a unique blend of social interaction and structured environment. With expert insights and practical tips, Kiki navigates th…
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Better to give than to receive? The etiquette of gifts and gifting
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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we dive into the complexities of gift-giving etiquette. From birthdays to weddings, holidays to corporate events, navigating the dos and don'ts of gifting can be a challenge. Kiki offers practical advice on gracefully receiving gifts and choosing the perfect present for any occasion, ensuring yo…
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Pearls of wisdom with Auntie Kiki: Pearl etiquette, history, and styling
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Get ready to clutch your pearls- or actually, to hold them closer to your heart. Dive into the timeless elegance of pearls with Auntie Kiki on this episode of Awkward Etiquette. Discover the rich history and cultural significance of pearls, as well as the intricate etiquette surrounding their wear and care. From understanding the symbolism and supe…
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Toddlers, Tiaras, and Princess Syndrome- etiquette for spoiled brats
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Join romance author, ex rich person, and etiquette maven Kiki Astor in this episode of "Awkward Etiquette" as she fearlessly delves into the world of toddlers, tiaras, and the notorious Princess Syndrome. With a touch of much needed humor, Kiki breaks down the intricacies of dealing with spoiled brats, be they adults or toddlers, while maintaining …
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Promptness is a virtue? The etiquette and social anthropology of lateness and being on time
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In this delightful episode of "Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor," join your charismatic hostess with the mosteset, your favorite Auntie Kiki, as she navigates the intricate world of lateness and promptness, including how they fit into cultural and social anthropology, psychology, and etiquette. Dive into a whimsical exploration of the cultural nua…
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Graceful Exits: Etiquette coach discusses divorce decorum and separating in style
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Join Kiki Astor, the charismatic romance novelist and etiquette coach, in this must-listen episode of 'Awkward Etiquette.' Delve into the art of navigating a messy high-profile divorce with grace, style, and impeccable manners. Kiki Astor shares her expert insights on maintaining elegance in the face of relationship challenges, offering practical a…
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How to be a social climber- without dropping your pedigree papers
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In this captivating episode of "Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor," delve into the intriguing history of the legendary feud between Mrs. Astor and Alva Vanderbilt. Uncover the secrets of high society and learn how to elegantly navigate the delicate art of social climbing. Kiki Astor shares valuable insights on dealing with the gatekeepers who stand…
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Red soles and fake handbags- the history and etiquette of status symbols
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Step into the world of opulence with the latest episode of "Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor" as we explore the fascinating history of status symbols, from Louis XIV's iconic red-soled shoes to the intricate web of sumptuary laws. Join your host Kiki Astor and her savvy guests as they unravel the tales behind these symbols of wealth and prestige. …
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What is etiquette, and why do manners matter?
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Join host Kiki Astor in this introductory episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, as she delves into the essence of etiquette, exploring why it matters in today's society and how it has evolved over time. Uncover the intricacies of social norms, the impact of manners on personal relationships, and the unexpected twists that etiquette can introduc…
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