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Java with Juli - Conversations About God, Sex, & You

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Psychologist and author Dr. Juli Slattery doesn’t like small talk. In this weekly podcast, she dives into the “taboo” questions Christians are afraid to ask—or don’t know who to ask—about sexuality, intimacy, marriage, singleness, and more. Every episode is an open invitation to join Juli “at the table” for a deeper look at the good, the hard, the healing, and the holy in God’s design for sexuality. Java with Juli is an outreach of Authentic Intimacy.

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Unpacking Emotional Baggage: How to Get to the Root of Conflict in Marriage with Dr. Dan Allender, #568 49:58

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Turns out, the stuff we haven’t dealt with from childhood shows up ... right in the middle of our relationships. Sit down with Juli and Dr. Dan Allender as they discuss why we must be willing to explore our own stories in order to create safety, nurture curiosity, and repair what’s broken. Guest: Dr. Dan Allender Follow-up Resources: The Deep-Rooted Marriage by Dr. Dan Allender Java with Juli #169 Your Wounded Heart (AI Members Only) Join an Online Book Study !…

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3 Myths We Believe About "Being One" In Marriage, #567 27:42

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We spend a lot of our marriages thinking that “becoming one” means, "You'll become more like me. And once you become more like me, then we'll become one." Instead, what if you could say to your spouse, “I can love you just the way you are without having to change you.” If that’s the kind of oneness you want for your marriage (present or future), grab your Java and pull up a chair with Juli and Hannah. Co-host: Hannah Nitz ( @hannahnitz ) Follow-up Resources: My Husband Isn’t My Best Friend (blog) Join an Authentic Intimacy Online Book Study !…

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AI & Porn: The Attachment Crisis No One Sees Coming, #566 46:22

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AI is changing the game when it comes to pornography—and it’s becoming more addictive and more dehumanizing than ever. This episode explores the impact of modern porn, including its ties to fantasy, gaming, and a distorted view of connection. If you or someone you love is navigating this journey, there is hope! Guests: Jonathan Daugherty & Joel Warneking Follow-up Resources: Join an Online Book Study ! Hot Topic Kit: Porn in Marriage (for AI Members)—not a member, get it here . Gateway to Freedom Intensive Workshop 423 Communities , 423 Podcast…

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How to (Really) Love Your Neighbor with Jada Edwards, Ep. #565 47:50

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The relationships you struggle with the most? This episode is for those. Juli sits down with Bible teacher Jada Edwards to share stories about the ways they’ve fallen short when it comes to loving others, and how God has transformed their understanding of what it means to love the way He does. (Spoiler alert: Sometimes the best way to learn love is to start with the person who bugs you the most.) Guest: Jada Edwards ( @jada_edwards ) Resources: Sign up for our email list and stay in the know! Jada’s book: A New Way to Love Your Neighbor How to Have Tough Conversations (blog) Encountering the Radical Love of Jesus (blog) AI Members Only: Why “Love Is Love” Doesn’t Mean What You Think It Means, Ep. #401…

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#564 Why People Turn to Porn and How to Break the Cycle 36:35

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Sadly, wrestling with pornography addiction is increasingly commonplace. But how do people find pornography? And why do they keep going back to it? In the final of this series revisiting Reclaim, Troy and Melissa Haas of HopeQuest, share their testimony and expertise around pornography addiction, and what it takes to overcome it. Guests: Troy and Melissa Haas Troy and Melissa’s Website: hopequestgroup.org/ Troy and Melissa’s Instagram: @hopequestgroup Partner financially with Authentic Intimacy! Resource: #549 What the Latest Research Shows About Porn Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.…

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#563 Practical Advice for Talking to Kids About Sex and Culture 46:17

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Navigating the teenage years has never been easy, whether you’re the parent or the child. So as parents, how can you help your teenager or pre-teen have a better experience? What practically can you do to put them in a stronger position to navigate their teenage years safely, with more clarity about God’s love for them and design for their sexuality? Three guests – James Talbert, Josh Miller, and Chelsey Nutgren – join Juli to share some much-needed practical advice for raising surrendered kids in our current cultural moment. Guests: James Talbert, Josh Miller, Chelsey Nugteren James’ Website: Citizens Akron Josh’s Website: Riverwood Chapel Akron Website: AXIS.org Website: Center for Humane Technology Resource Series: Blog: Talking to Your Kids About Sex: Why, When, and How Blog: 5 Reasons You’re Not Talking to Your Kids About Sex (and How to Overcome Them) Blog: Sexual Integrity: The Heart of Sexually Discipling Your Kids Find out more about donating to Authentic Intimacy. Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.…

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#562 The Best Way to Stop Fighting in Your Marriage 41:43

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James 4:1 so famously writes, “What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you?” It’s not surprising that marriage is a hotbed for conflict. When you live so closely with someone else, it’s easy to see their flaws, shortcomings, and mistakes in high definition. So what can you do to stop constantly fighting? In this special session from Reclaim 2024, Brad Rhoads shares what helped cut fighting and elevate fun in his marriage. Guests: Brad Rhodes, Grace Marriage Brad’s Website: gracemarriage.com Brad’s Instagram: @grace_marriage Blog: Forgiveness is Hard, Grace is Harder Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.…

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#561 Help for Christian Wives Who Don’t Like Sex 1:05:41

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We’ve talked about the fact that many women struggle to ‘flip the switch’ and enjoy married sex, and we’ve talked about what might contribute to that. But we haven’t talked about what husbands can do to help their wives enjoy sex. Juli shares a conversation from Gary Thomas’ Podcast where she was a panelist alongside Debra Fileta and Belah Rose. Host: Gary Thomas Featured Speakers: Dr. Juli Slattery, Debra Fileta, MA, LPC and Belah Rose Gary’s Website: garythomas.com Gary’s Newsletter: garythomasbooks.substack.com Book: Married Sex by Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta, MA, LPC Book: Rethinking Sexuality by Dr. Juli Slattery Book: God, Sex and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery Juli’s Website: authenticintimacy.com Debra’s Website: debrafileta.com Belah’s Website: delightyourmarriage.com Please support Joy and Zack Skarka on GoFundMe Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.…

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#560 Can Biblical Churches be LGBTQ-friendly? 53:14

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There are so many challenges that come with leading a church well, especially when it comes to how to express their stance on Biblical sexuality. Many want to be a place where people can wrestle with the truth about God and sex and figure things out, while also being sure to prioritize biblical orthodoxy. How can they do both? Pastor Evan Wickham, from Park Hill Church in San Diego, joins Juli to share lessons he’s learned and what his church is doing to lead biblically with clarity and love. NOTE: We had some technical issues with recording this episode, but wanted to make sure you got to hear a great conversation--thanks for being patient with us! Guest: Evan Wickham Park Hill’s Instagram: @prkhllchrch Evan’s Instagram: @evanwickham Park Hill’s Website: parkhillsd.church Join our email list! Blog: Has God Changed His Mind About Sex? Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.…

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#559 What if Male Sexuality Is More Complex Than We Think? 49:42

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Historically, inside and outside the church, male sexuality has been talked about as a purely orgasm-driven experience. But is it possible we have oversimplified the male sexual experience? What if there’s more to the way men think and feel about sex than we’ve previously considered? Dr. Corey Allan joins Juli for a very different conversation about male sexuality. Guest: Dr. Corey Allan Corey’s Website: smr.fm Corey’s Instagram: @sexymarriageradio Resource: Purity Culture Failed Men Too Sign up for the email list! Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.…

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#558 Christians Need To Change The Way They Talk About Married Sex 30:43

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As we work to change the purity narrative and undo many of its effects, we have to look at some of the continued harm it does to marriages. There’s still so much missing in the way Christian couples are taught about marital intimacy. How can Christians celebrate the gift of sex that God gave in marriage? Juli shares a conversation she had with the late Dr. Doug Rosenau, where he shared both what is missing and what is needed in the church when it comes to talking about the beauty of sex in marriage. Guest: Dr. Doug Rosenau, Institute for Sexual Wholeness Institute for Sexual Wholeness Book: The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Sexual Fulfillment by Clifford and Joyce Penner Book: A Celebration of Sex: A Guide to Enjoying God's Gift of Sexual Intimacy by Douglas E. Rosenau Podcast: #543 How the Old Testament Reveals God’s Heart for Women, Sex, and Covenant Love Transcript 00:00 - Introduction to Christian Sexuality Conversations 03:14 - The Church’s Perspective on Sex in Marriage 16:26 - Understanding Female Sexuality and Mutual Pleasure 29:13 - Nuancing Gender and Desire in Sexual Conversations Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.…

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#557 Understanding The Harm of Purity Culture and How to Move Forward 43:29

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One of the biggest criticisms of purity culture is the way it reduced sexuality to a list of do’s and don’ts, but there are lots of other reasons millennial men and women report feeling burned by it. Dr. Camden Morgante, author of “Recovering from Purity Culture”, shares some of the harmful narratives that formed the movement, and provides some alternative approaches to discussing sexuality. Guest: Dr. Camden Morgante Website: drcamden.com Instagram: @drcamden Book: Recovering From Purity Culture by Dr. Camden Morgante Free Resource: Why You Still Need Boundaries As You Pursue Sexual Integrity Sign up for our email list! Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to Purity Culture 02:13 Camden’s Personal Journey and Professional Insights 05:58 Understanding the Harm of Purity Culture 09:52 Navigating Sexual Awakening in Adolescence 13:58 The Importance of Teaching Values 15:57 Dating Dynamics and Courtship Culture 22:08 Modesty and Its Misinterpretations 25:07 The Role of Patriarchy in Purity Culture 30:54 Steps Towards Healing and Wholeness 39:03 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.…

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#556 Why We Can't Ignore What Offends Us About Jesus 40:33

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If questions about sex lead to questions about God, it’s important that we know and follow Jesus as He really is. Rick Lawrence, author of “Editing Jesus”, joins Juli to discuss how many American Christians make Jesus into an image other than Himself. Guest: Rick Lawrence Rick’s Website: ricklawrence.com Book: Editing Jesus: Confronting the Distorted Faith of the American Church by Rick Lawrence Join our email list! Guide: “3 Reasons Questions About Sex Lead to Questions about God” Timestamps 00:00 Understanding God and Sexuality 02:50 The Journey to “Editing Jesus” 06:11 Confronting Cultural Misunderstandings 08:57 The Mud Puddles of Scripture 11:57 The Hard Sayings of Jesus 15:12 Intimacy and Relationship with Jesus 18:02 The Challenge of Self-Centeredness 21:01 Joy vs Happiness in Faith 23:49 The Role of Suffering in Growth 27:01 Practical Steps to Know Jesus 29:52 Conclusion and Resources Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.…

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#555 Can You Have A Great Marriage Without Sex? Juli Answers Your Questions 39:56

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In this special Q&A episode, Juli answers your questions about sex and marriage. You’ll hear answers to questions like, why did God make us sexual when it causes so much pain? Does sex matter in marriage? And, is it possible to be too focused on sex in marriage? Join Juli and Hannah for a brief exploration of good biblical theology on sex and marriage. Co-host: Hannah Nitz Hannah’s Website: hannahnitz.com Hannah’s Instagram: @hannahnitz Blog: Overcoming Sexual Shame and Fear in Marriage Blog: Help! How Much Sex is “Normal” for Married Couples? Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.…

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#554 Sex and the Female Body: How to Swap Shame For Celebration 46:23

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How can women overcome fear and shame around their bodies and embrace the beauty of God’s design for sex? Whether from purity culture, other messages, or poor experiences, many women don’t see their bodies and sex as good or beautiful. Francie Winslow, host of the podcast “Heaven in Your Home” went through her own struggle with this, and joins Juli to explain how she is learning to embrace the goodness of God’s design. Guest: Francie Winslow Website: franciewinslow.com Instagram: @franciewinslow Strong Foundation To Starting Well: Claiming A Healthy Vision For Married Sex Pleasure & Orgasm: Passion & Practicals Of A Wife Receiving Pleasure Java with Juli: #550 What to Do When Sex is Painful Join our email list! Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.…

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