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Bros, Babies, and Building a Marriage That Lasts 37:59

5 hari yang lalu37:59

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Send us a text What happens when you bring a bromance to the podcast table? Pure magic. This episode of Baggage Claim features our son Thomas and his best friend AJ as we explore the fascinating intersection of friendship and marriage. These two young men began as bitter enemies over a girl at the barbecue restaurant where they worked, with "hate" being "a light word" for their initial feelings toward each other. Fast forward nearly a decade, and they're inseparable friends who've learned to navigate life's challenges together. Their journey from hostility to brotherhood provides the perfect backdrop for our deeper exploration of relationships. We dive into how friendship serves as the foundation for lasting marriages. As one doctor wisely observed, "marriages that really last, that stand the test of time, that go through conflict, that have hard times - the ones that make it are because they are friends." This profound truth often gets overshadowed by romance and passion, yet it's the friendship element that sustains couples through difficult seasons. Trust emerges as the cornerstone of both successful friendships and marriages. The ability to speak truth, provide accountability, and simply "be there" creates resilience in relationships of all kinds. As Thomas navigates early parenthood with his wife Miranda, he's discovering how crucial it is to remember they were friends before becoming spouses and parents – a lesson applicable to couples in any stage. The conversation takes fascinating turns as we explore the delicate balance between marriage partnerships and friendships, how external relationships influence our marriages, and the importance of surrounding ourselves with positive people who support our relationships rather than undermine them. Perhaps most practically, we discuss how "fun" needs redefinition through different life seasons. Whether it's rebuilding furniture together, watching YouTube videos while the baby sleeps, or simply crashing on the couch with door-dashed food, finding ways to enjoy each other's company remains essential for connection. Pull up a chair, grab your favorite drink, and join our candid, laughter-filled discussion about the relationships that shape our lives most profoundly.…

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Why Kids Don’t Need Perfect Parents—They Need Present Ones 33:04

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Send us a text The dance between loving our children and setting appropriate boundaries can be one of parenting's greatest challenges. This becomes even more complex when guilt enters the equation—whether from divorce, loss, or simply wanting to give our kids "better than we had." Have you ever caught yourself saying yes when you should say no? Buying gifts to compensate for time apart? Working longer hours to afford opportunities while missing precious moments with your children? You're not alone. In this raw and honest conversation, we explore the hidden patterns of guilt-driven parenting that affect families of all kinds. Jess shares her personal experience of "going bonkers with gifts" during the first Christmas after losing her husband, while Greg reflects on the challenging dynamics that emerge when divorced parents compete to be the "fun" one. We dive into the psychological impact these patterns have on children, who may temporarily enjoy getting everything they want but ultimately need the structure and resilience that comes from appropriate boundaries. The hard truth? Sometimes the most loving thing we can do for our children is to let them struggle, to hear "no," and to learn that life requires effort. What looks like love in the moment might actually be setting our children up for failure later in life when the world doesn't bend to their every wish. Whether you're in a blended family, a traditional family, or parenting solo, this conversation offers valuable insights on finding the balance between nurturing our children and preparing them for the real world. Remember: healthy parents raise healthy children—and sometimes that means doing the difficult work of examining our own motivations and patterns.…

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"We Built This Together: The Power of Inclusion in Blended Families" 41:55

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Send us a text The foundation of any successful blended family begins with intentionality, especially when it comes to involving children in the process. In this deeply personal episode, Greg and Jess take listeners back to the earliest days of their relationship, sharing how they purposefully included their four children from the very beginning. Rather than presenting their new relationship as a fait accompli, they created meaningful opportunities for their children to feel ownership in the family-building process. From carefully planned introductions to a memorable meeting at a small-town park where they conducted a powerful team activity involving glasses and butter knives, they demonstrate how simple metaphors can help children understand complex family dynamics. The episode explores their creative approach to family integration—having children decorate personal cups that represented their unique personalities while using butter knives (representing the adults and God) to support each other. This visual demonstration showed the children that building their new family required everyone's participation. "It's not just one of us doing this," Greg explains, "We're all working together and we're all going to hold each other up." Greg and Jess candidly discuss navigating emotional challenges, including how they honored previous relationships while moving forward together. They share touching details about incorporating all four children into their wedding ceremony with special vows and symbolic rope bracelets tied with fisherman's knots. As they reflect on their journey, they also address the evolving nature of their relationships now that their children are adults, describing the difficult transition from being providers to becoming coaches. Whether you're part of a blended family or simply looking to foster deeper connections with your children, this conversation offers practical wisdom on giving children a voice without giving them control. How intentional are you with your family time? Share your experiences with Greg and Jess on social media or by texting the show directly through your podcast app.…

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"We Promised You Real – So Here's Real" 55:08

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Send us a text There's something powerful about admitting you're in a valley. In this raw and unscripted 20th episode, we break from our usual format to have an honest conversation about the seasons of life we're currently navigating. Greg, Jess, and Producer Michael (making his on-mic debut) dive deep into what it means to practice genuine self-care versus slipping into selfishness. We carefully define the difference: self-care is actively taking care of yourself to improve your overall well-being, while selfishness prioritizes your needs at the expense of others. This distinction becomes our compass as we share personal struggles. Michael courageously opens up about his divorce journey and how community became his lifeline. Greg reveals professional frustrations at 52, feeling undervalued despite decades of experience. Jess battles the persistent voice in her head saying she's "not enough" – a struggle many will recognize. Through these stories emerges a powerful metaphor from Greg's mountain climbing days: when traversing dangerous terrain, you rope yourself to others so if one person falls, the team prevents catastrophe. The conversation takes a transformative turn when Michael shares wisdom from his healing process: "If I am coping with where I'm at, I am not thriving, because coping and thriving cannot coexist." We explore how distraction prevents genuine processing of difficult thoughts and emotions, keeping us stuck in cycles rather than moving forward. Each of us commits to one specific action to climb out of our current valleys – from Greg's "50 by 50" life lessons project to Michael's renewed dedication to community building. These aren't grand gestures but intentional steps toward healthier living. Whatever valley you're walking through right now, this episode reminds you that you're not alone. Connect with us on social media, share your own journey, and remember – the most treacherous mountains aren't meant to be climbed solo.…

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Selfishness vs. Selflessness: The Trade-offs of Marriage (Part 1) 43:48

5 weeks yang lalu43:48

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Send us a text What's the real enemy of a thriving relationship? According to Greg and Jess, it might be something we don't like to admit: selfishness. In this deeply personal and sometimes emotional conversation, the Baggage Claim hosts unpack the complex tension between selfishness and selflessness that exists in every meaningful relationship. The discussion begins with Jess sharing a thought-provoking statement from 12 years ago: "The greatest enemy of marriage isn't from the outside, it's something that comes within each of us - selfishness." This launches a candid exploration of how cultural messages about self-care and self-focus have shifted over the past decade, and whether modern emphasis on "me time" has complicated our ability to build truly selfless partnerships. Greg offers a powerful perspective on life's necessary trade-offs, sharing personal stories about declining lucrative career opportunities to honor his commitment to being present with his family. "Time is that one thing I can't reproduce," he reflects, highlighting the irreplaceable nature of moments spent with loved ones. Meanwhile, Jess vulnerably recounts seasons where she pursued education while raising four children - periods that could have appeared selfish from the outside but were actually collaborative family decisions. Perhaps most compelling is their rejection of the "marriage is 50-50" myth. As Greg puts it, "Sometimes you may come with 60% and I need to be 40%." This acknowledgment of marriage's natural ebbs and flows offers listeners permission to embrace the reality that balance isn't always equal, but it can still be fair. The conversation concludes with a profound spiritual insight about the command to "love your neighbor as yourself," raising the question: how can we truly love our partners if we haven't learned to properly love ourselves? Whether you're newly married, navigating a blended family, or simply trying to balance your own needs with those of your partner, this episode offers permission to acknowledge the struggle while providing practical wisdom for creating more selfless relationships. Join the conversation by texting us your thoughts or connecting on social media!…

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Taco Bell, Talladega Nights, and Talking About Sex 40:10

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Send us a text Ever notice how marriage comes with an instruction manual for everything except the bedroom? That silence might be more damaging than you realize. We tackle the conversation every couple needs but few actually have – honest communication about sex in marriage. Despite being married for years (13 for Greg, 24 for me), discussing intimacy can still make cheeks flush with embarrassment. This vulnerability highlights exactly why this conversation matters so desperately. Our different backgrounds created wildly different perspectives. Growing up where sex was considered dirty and shameful versus environments where it was discussed crudely both failed to prepare us for healthy intimacy in marriage. This pattern repeats across countless relationships, creating disconnection where there should be unity. When couples retreat to separate corners instead of communicating desires and needs, predictable patterns emerge. Women often seek emotional fulfillment in children, novels, or social media while men might turn to work or pornography. The divide grows wider, creating gaps where resentment festers. The simple act of having uncomfortable conversations can prevent this spiral. Marriage moves through distinct seasons – from newlyweds to parenting young children to empty nesting and beyond. Your intimate relationship naturally evolves through these phases. Being intentional about scheduling time together isn't unromantic – it's acknowledging the reality of busy lives while prioritizing your connection. Sometimes that means Atlanta date nights at fancy speakeasies, other times it's Taco Bell and Talladega Nights on the couch. Both can be equally meaningful with the right perspective. Perhaps most importantly, remember that laughter belongs in the bedroom. From Greg's hilariously disastrous honeymoon moment (involving shorts around ankles and an ill-timed tumble) to those awkward "what do I do with my arms?" moments, perfection isn't the goal – connection is. When you can laugh together in your most vulnerable moments, you've found something truly special. Ready to transform your relationship? Start the conversation today. Your partner might be waiting for permission to open up too.…

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The Argument That Wrote This Episode 41:54

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Send us a text Ever sit across from your partner during an argument and wonder why the simplest disagreement suddenly feels like World War III? You're not alone. Every couple fights—it's how you fight that makes all the difference between relationship growth and relationship destruction. When we planned this episode on fighting fair, something ironic happened—we found ourselves in a heated disagreement while preparing our notes. That experience perfectly illustrates what makes conflict so challenging: we approach disagreements with different perspectives, communication styles, and emotional triggers, all shaped by our past experiences. For Greg, growing up in a home with frequent angry outbursts made calm communication a priority, while Jess's experience with conflict avoidance created different challenges. We've discovered that most couples fight about three main issues: money (differing values and spending habits), communication (misinterpreted messages and unmet expectations), and time together (including intimacy). These friction points reveal our deepest needs and vulnerabilities. Like a football team building its strategy around a quarterback's unique abilities, successful couples learn to work with their natural conflict styles rather than against them. The guardrails we've developed have transformed how we handle disagreements: looking out for each other's best interests even when emotions run high, never raising our voices, avoiding name-calling, and giving each other space to cool down when needed. These boundaries didn't emerge overnight—they came from painful experiences, honest conversations, and the wisdom of James 1:19: "Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger." Whether you're currently in the middle of a "tiff" or enjoying relational peace, now is the perfect time to establish your own conflict rules. Text us your thoughts using the link in our show description, and remember: healthy conflict, handled with care and respect, actually strengthens your relationship rather than weakens it. The goal isn't to eliminate disagreements—it's to fight in ways that bring understanding rather than division.…

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Curiosity Over Conflict: A New Way to Communicate 43:33

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Send us a text Ever wonder why some couples seem to navigate conflicts effortlessly while others get stuck in endless loops of misunderstanding? The secret might be simpler than you think. In this heart-to-heart conversation, we explore a powerful three-word phrase that has transformed our relationship: "Help me understand." This deceptively simple tool creates space for curiosity and empathy—two essential ingredients for genuine connection. We reveal how this approach differs from typical communication strategies by going beyond surface-level exchanges to uncover the thoughts and feelings beneath our words. Drawing from our own struggles and victories, we distinguish between merely hearing someone and truly listening to them. Hearing happens passively when sound reaches your ears, but listening requires intention, focus, and a genuine desire to comprehend another person's perspective. We candidly discuss how technology distractions, impatience, and the desire to be right can sabotage even our best communication efforts. You'll discover six practical approaches to better understanding: listening without judgment, listening to learn, paying attention to body language, acknowledging feelings, avoiding interruptions, and practicing patience. These aren't just theoretical concepts—they're tools we're actively implementing in our own relationship, sometimes succeeding and sometimes stumbling. The beauty of "help me understand" lies in its versatility. It works not just in moments of conflict but in everyday interactions that build your connection over time. Whether you're newly married or celebrating decades together, this approach creates a foundation of mutual respect and genuine curiosity about your partner's inner world. Ready to transform your conversations from frustrating dead-ends to pathways of deeper connection? Listen now, and then share which of our six strategies resonates most with you. The journey to understanding begins with a single question.…

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Beyond I Do: Creating a Shared Journey That Actually Works 48:39

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Send us a text Marriage is a team sport that nobody prepared us for. What happens when two different people try to build a life together? How do you create a truly functional partnership rather than just two people sharing space? Greg and Jess dig deep into what makes relationships work as teams by examining three crucial elements: shared vision, effective communication, and the delicate balance between trust and leadership. They reveal how establishing family values created their roadmap for raising "likable, contributing members of society" and how contentment with both plenty and little stems from mutual agreement about what truly matters. The conversation takes a fascinating turn when they explore their dramatically different communication styles. Greg's "let's try it and see what happens" approach crashes headlong into Jess's need for careful planning. Their candid stories about navigating these differences offer valuable insights for any couple struggling with similar tensions. "Your brain works way different and way faster than mine," Jess admits, highlighting how understanding these differences transformed their communication. Perhaps most compelling is their exploration of leadership in marriage. They challenge the notion that one person must lead everything, instead advocating for recognizing individual strengths. "In every relationship, someone is leading," Greg explains, "but that doesn't mean creating a dictatorship." Their perspective on how trust and leadership function together provides a refreshing framework for couples tired of power struggles. The episode wraps with practical application points, encouraging listeners to identify their "why" behind major life decisions and commit to being lifelong learners together. Whether you're newly married, considering marriage, or decades into partnership, you'll find actionable wisdom to strengthen your team. Share your thoughts with us! What book has impacted your relationship journey? We'd love to hear what's helped you become a better teammate in your relationship.…

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We Have No Idea What We're Doing, And That's Perfectly Okay 56:24

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Send us a text "We had no idea what we were doing." Those words might not be what you expect to hear from podcast hosts sharing advice about blended families, but that's exactly what makes Baggage Claim so refreshingly honest. In this vulnerable episode, Greg and Jess pull back the curtain on their 13-year journey of blending families to reveal the messy, beautiful truth: nobody really knows what they're doing. The highlight reels we often see of blended families can be intimidating. Core values, behavior lists, and carefully structured routines make it seem like some families have it all figured out. But behind those Instagram-worthy moments are real people navigating uncharted waters, making mistakes, and learning as they go. Greg and Jess share some of their biggest failures—from leaving kids at practice because they missed calendar invites to writing checks for groceries they knew wouldn't clear—and how those challenging moments actually created some of their family's most cherished traditions. What stands out most is their resilience through financial hardships and communication challenges. As Greg shares the humbling experience of not being able to afford medical care for Jess during a time of illness, they reflect on how these struggles shaped their family philosophy: "If we can't be happy with a hundred dollars in our bank account, we'll never be happy with hundreds of thousands." This perspective shift transformed their approach to both money and marriage. Whether you're in the trenches of early blended family life or navigating the evolving relationships with adult children, this episode offers comfort in knowing you're not alone. The real magic happens not in having all the answers, but in showing up consistently with love, curiosity, and the willingness to fail forward. After all, if you're failing, it means you're trying—and that's something worth celebrating.…

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From Bank Beef to Backyard Vows: Nick & Brandy’s Love Story 47:18

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Send us a text What happens when a bank teller and a marketing guy fall in love over karaoke at a country bar? In our first-ever guest episode, we're thrilled to welcome Nick and Brandy Kastner, who bring 19 years of marriage wisdom to the table. Their story begins with workplace animosity (Brandy wasn't thrilled when Nick got quickly promoted at the bank where they both worked) and transforms into a relationship built on compromise, communication, and intentional connection. After a memorable first date where Brandy sang "Baby Got Back"—the moment Nick claims he fell in love—they navigated early relationship challenges, including an ex trying to reconnect. When they finally decided to marry, they skipped the expensive ceremony, opting for a $50 backyard wedding that proved true commitment doesn't require grand gestures. The Kastners openly share their struggles with balancing busy schedules, raising their now nearly-adult daughters, and nurturing their relationship through different love languages. Despite the chaos of volleyball tournaments, work travel, and everyday life, they've maintained a strong connection by never going to bed angry and making intentional time for each other. They've experienced only three truly heated arguments in nearly two decades together—a testament to their communication skills and mutual respect. As they prepare for their oldest daughter's graduation and the next chapter of their lives, Nick and Brandy offer practical advice about staying truthful with each other, not forcing expectations on children, and most importantly, creating dedicated time for your relationship. Their journey reminds us that beautiful marriages don't happen by accident—they're built through daily choices, honest conversations, and the willingness to compromise (even on graduation party plates).…

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Every Moment Matters: How Being Present Creates Lasting Family Memories 47:23

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Send us a text Have you ever wondered how to make each child in a blended family feel uniquely valued? Sometimes the answer lies in being purposefully present in both big adventures and small everyday moments. When Greg and I merged our families, we quickly realized that intentionality would be our lifeline. After a chance encounter at Target revealed how our daughter Callie felt about sharing "her time" with us, we knew we needed a better approach. This moment of clarity sparked what would become one of our most cherished family traditions – the "Sweet 16 Adventures." For each child's sixteenth birthday, we dedicated three to four days to go anywhere in the continental US and do whatever they wanted. Callie's New York adventure during a historic snowstorm, Thomas's adrenaline-filled outdoor excursion in Asheville, Cody's skateboarding journey up the California coast, and Erin Grace's personalized NYC experience – each trip uniquely reflected that child's personality and interests. But perhaps the most powerful parts of our story aren't the grand adventures but the small, consistent investments we made: "Girls' Days" getting manicures, "Boys' Days" fishing followed by eating at "places the girls would never go," and those in-between moments where we simply showed up. These seemingly ordinary times built extraordinary connections that our now-adult children still reference today. The beauty of intentional parenting isn't in perfection but presence. As I recently heard, "Don't wish for happiness to come. Be happy where you're at." Whether you're managing a blended family or simply looking to deepen your connection with your children, start where you are, with what you have. We'd love to hear your stories of intentional moments with your children on our social media. What simple traditions have created lasting bonds in your family?…

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From Burned Furniture to Rebuilt Lives, How loss and healing reshaped our view of faith. 47:13

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Send us a text What happens when your faith gets shattered? How do you rebuild trust in something bigger than yourself when life deals devastating blows? This deeply personal episode reveals the spiritual journeys that have profoundly shaped our marriage and blended family. Greg shares his transformation from substance abuse to ministry after a rock-bottom moment in a bar bathroom. His story includes unexpected miracles—like the time four catering vans mysteriously appeared with food after a simple prayer for homeless people in Atlanta. You'll hear how his faith was later tested through divorce despite "doing everything right" according to religious expectations, leading to broken windows, burned furniture, and ultimately, redemption. Jess reveals a different path—raised in church by a devoted mother, her faith was strengthened through her daughter's miraculous healing from severe heart defects. Yet she too faced a devastating test when her first husband died unexpectedly, forcing her to redefine what "good" looks like in a world where prayers sometimes seem unanswered. We explore how these experiences form the foundation of our relationship, highlighting our belief that healthy marriages require three essential components: personal health (emotional, mental, spiritual), a strong couple relationship, and family dynamics. As we share our stories without filters, we invite you to consider your own "true north"—what grounds you during life's inevitable storms? Whether you're spiritually inclined or not, this conversation offers valuable perspective on finding anchor points that hold you steady when everything else falls apart. Because as we've learned through our journeys, everyone is either in a storm, just coming out of one, or about to enter one—and what matters most is how you weather it together.…

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The Scheduling Dance of Blended Families 43:12

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Send us a text The scheduling dance of blended families might be the most challenging choreography you'll ever learn. In this heartfelt episode, Greg and Jess dive deep into the complexities, frustrations, and unexpected joys of figuring out who gets the kids when—and how to do it with grace. Drawing from their 13 years of experience navigating the waters of shared custody, they reveal how color-coded calendars became their lifeline and why perspective changes everything. With a simple yet powerful finger-pointing exercise, they demonstrate how two people can look at the exact same situation yet see completely different things—a perfect metaphor for co-parenting negotiations. The conversation takes an honest turn as they address the painful reality that children will inevitably miss events that feel important to you. Rather than creating guilt or making demands, they share their philosophy of always extending invitations while accepting that kids will make their own choices, especially as they grow older. "It's not about you" becomes their mantra, repeated throughout as a necessary reminder for anyone trying to navigate these tricky waters. Most powerfully, Greg shares the story of the mule in the well—a touching metaphor for how the dirt that seems to be burying you can actually become the steps that lead you out if you just keep shaking it off and stepping up. For anyone feeling stuck in the scheduling conflicts and emotional turbulence of blended family life, this episode offers not just practical advice but genuine hope that there's light at the end of the tunnel. Whether you're newly navigating the blended family journey or have been at it for years, this conversation delivers equal parts practical wisdom and emotional reassurance. The key takeaway? Keep communicating, keep perspective, and above all—keep moving forward.…

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Love, Loss, and the Little Things That Matter Most 43:12

17 weeks yang lalu43:12

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Send us a text We're all guilty of seeking that elusive "silver bullet" – the one magical secret that transforms an ordinary marriage into an extraordinary one. But what if the answer isn't found in grand gestures or revolutionary techniques, but rather in simple, consistent choices made day after day? In this deeply personal episode, Greg and Jess pull back the curtain on their 13-year relationship to share four foundational principles that have sustained them through blended family challenges, busy schedules, and life's inevitable ups and downs. Their candid conversation reveals how intentionally having fun together, embracing selflessness, letting go of minor irritations, and prioritizing communication creates the bedrock of lasting love. Jess shares a particularly powerful perspective on "not sweating the small stuff" that stems from her experience of losing her first husband – a reminder that the very things we complain about (laundry left unfolded, items on countertops) are actually privileges of having someone in our lives. Meanwhile, Greg opens up about his journey from being communication-avoidant to recognizing how essential honest dialogue is to relationship health. What makes this episode especially valuable is its practicality. Rather than offering vague platitudes, Greg and Jess provide specific, actionable challenges you can implement immediately: a five-minute question exercise to improve communication, ways to redefine "fun" that fit your current life stage, and the transformative practice of serving your partner with zero expectation of return. Whether you're in the honeymoon phase, navigating the roommate years, or rebuilding after a rough patch, these time-tested principles offer a roadmap for creating a relationship that doesn't just survive but genuinely thrives. Ready to move beyond searching for silver bullets and start building something that lasts? This conversation is your starting point.…

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