Manage episode 276988766 series 2292804
A confident person
No one is perfect. Yet, a person of low self-esteemholds on to imperfections, covering everything else with an enlarged version ofthese imperfections, and negate any possibilities for the future. Filled in his mind are the echoes of “I can’t”, “I would ruin it”.
One has to be clear that all these perceptions are based on illusions. They are nothing but labels one strikes on oneself. This is like observing the world through colored lens, not able to see reality. Whenever this intention surges up, do not follow it. Instead, one needs to stop to watch it, and to reveal its illusionary nature calmly.
To cherish what one already has and to be comfortable with what fits one, this is good enough. A confident person doesn’t have to be better than others in everything. Instead, he knows himself and accepts himself accordingly.
One would be in fear of shadows if one’s inner sunlight has not shone forth. Therefore, one is encouraged to initiate a good heart, to do good deeds, to understand and care about others in everyday life. Slowly, one’s self-centered mind would open up.