Ep 065 The Fail Coach with Miha Matievski

The Mosaic Podcast

MIHA MATIEVSKi

In 2009, Miha had four companies go bankrupt overnight: landing him $5 million in debt. Contemplating suicide to escape the pain as he looked over the balcony, he had a life-saving AH-HA moment. He realized that failure was a normal part of life: admitting to himself that he failed and to recognize he needed to stop blaming others and circumstances. This was the turning point when he made a choice to learn from his failures so he could do things differently in the future and to help others. Since then, he has climbed back to create a business and scaling it to 8 figures in less than a year. His life mission is to help people develop a healthy relationship with failure. Especially entrepreneurs.

this is a longer than usual podcast, but I hope you find value in it and I hope it blows your mind. In this podcast you will hear:

• listen to what happens when I completely blow the pronunciation of his last name, and how I want to restart and hear his answer
• what would happen if you didn’t have to always be perfect and always get things right?
• the problem with the failure is the emotions that go along with it
• how he reinvented himself and rebuilt himself
• from vacation to meet-ups to the magical moment that changed everything
• how did he discover the tag fail coach
• how marketers told him not to do what he was doing and how he decided to do it anyway
• what every story shares in common
• understanding when do we fail and the comfort zone
• hear a new perspective on what failure means
• the importance of tweaking the recipe
• vulnerability,being seen and the fact that no one cares
• comfort zones
• the 3 reasons we fail
• from emotions to logic
• the importance of mindfulness and the 4 steps to emotional intelligence
• feel the moment our conversation moves from head to heart
• regrets, fear and failing
• going through the fear of change, looking at your inner demons and just doing it
• everyday doing the things you are most scared of
• The Gardener, the daily fight against the demons and how to win the battle
• the importance of consistent behaviour
• product, market, audience
• a life of no problems is not a happy life???????
• the worry tree, when to solve the problem and what can I do
• coved-19, a new found failure having nothing to do with what you have done.
• finding what you CAN do, not focusing on what you CAN’T do
• building a business through know-like-trust and then listening to what they need
• the difference between a success coach perspective and a fail coach perspective
• what we can see when we accept failure?
• hear me trying to move him out of his comfort zone and watch what happens
• being comfortable with being uncomfortable
• how to listen to the personal message life gives and not only the global message
• the biggest failure he has had since he became a failure coach and not seeing the signs that it was over because of the emotions that blind us , and the pain and it’s reaction
• how the desire for something we want gets in the way of the things that will give it to us
• if we don’t pull the weeds from our garden, we will be destined to always experience the same failure in a different way
• the intellectualization of our pain vs sitting with our pain and cleaning it out
• our failure as a person and the hole it digs making it harder to get out of our pain
• intellectual understanding followed by consistent follows absorption in the heart
• a beautiful example of a man looking at his situation and speaking of the happiness in his life and yet opening up the possibility that perhaps there is something he does not see.
• do the little things and do what you can with what you have

Social media links:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mihamatlievski/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/matlievski.miha

Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FailCoach

Twitter: https://twitter.com/fail_coach

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/failcoach/

Website links:

www.fail.coach

www.theleverageoftrust.com

to contact danny, please check out his websites

www.DanielBruceLevin.com

www.TheMosaicOnline.com

to get a copy of my book, The Mosaic, please go to: http://a.co/dvgsgG3