The Communication Code with Jeremie Kubicek
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Best-selling author Jeremie Kubicek joins us to discuss his upcoming book "The Communication Code."
Jeremie explains the importance of effective communication in relationships, introducing the concept of a communication code consisting of five words that represent different communication needs.
We need to understand and meet expectations in relationships, and a custom communication code can improve communication, trust, and influence.
Show Outline
The importance of intros and outros (2:28)
Jeremie discusses the significance of intros and outros in influencing others and leaving a positive impression.
The impact of past behavior on present relationships (5:22)
Jeremie emphasizes the importance of addressing past behavior and apologizing for any negative impact it may have had on current relationships.
The disconnect between intent and perception (7:26)
Jeremie explores the mismatch that can occur between a person's intentions and how others perceive their words or actions.
Intentions and Expectations (7:38)
Explain how intentions and expectations are tied together and how missed expectations can lead to relational drama.
Unrealistic Expectations (8:35)
Discuss the need for realistic expectations in relationships and how unmet expectations can lead to resigned expectations.
What is The Communication Code? (10:11)
Introduce the concept of the communication code, which is a tool to help understand and meet the expectations of others in relationships.
Miscommunication with Steve (16:17)
Jeremie shares an experience where he and Steve had a miscommunication about a business deal, leading to an argument, and they realized the need for better communication.
Creating the Communication Code (19:02)
After the argument with Steve, Jeremie and Steve created the Communication Code to clarify expectations and avoid miscommunication in their relationship.
The code words and their meanings (23:09)
Explanation of the five code words: care, celebrate, clarify, collaborate, and critique, and their different meanings and applications in communication.
The importance of care (23:09)
Discussion on the significance of caring in relationships, understanding the needs of others, and providing a safe space for communication.
The process of clarifying and collaborating (24:53)
Explanation of the importance of clarifying information before collaboration and critique and the difference between collaboration and critique in the communication code.
The Importance of Trying Something New (29:41)
Highlighting the need to try something new instead of repeating the same patterns and expecting different results.
How to Interact with the Book and Improve Relationships (30:13)
Jeremie encourages readers to have a book buddy, take notes, and focus on specific chapters based on their relationship needs.
Links from the Show
- Take the Communication Code Assessment
- Buy the Book on Amazon (affiliate link)
- Connect with Jeremie on LinkedIn
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