Q: Hi Candice. I’ve recently started very seriously dating someone since my divorce. This lady is everything I’ve always wanted... It might sound bad but she has more of what I want than my ex-wife or anyone I’ve ever dated ever did. Despite knowing this, I still think about my ex wife and the good times we had together all the time. We knew each o…

Q: Hi Candice, I’m the most frustrated I’ve been since I can last remember. I’m completely taken with a woman who refuses to give me the chance to spend time with her. What she does not realise is that I’m convinced she’s exactly what I want and everything I’ve searched for, and I’m willing to do whatever it takes. She told me she’s seeing someone,…

Q: Hi Candice. I’m in love and committed to my girlfriend and I plan on marrying her as soon as possible. Thing is, we want a wedding abroad and a lot more that we must save for. She is frustrated with the delay. How can I make her understand that I really want to marry her but it’s a process?A: LISTEN NOW…

Q: Candice, I sent you a message on Instagram a few weeks ago. You said ‘hi’ but after I told you how beautiful you, you replied, ‘thank you’ and I haven’t heard from you since. Despite sending you at least 4 more messages. I’m sorry if I was too direct but maybe we can talk and get to know one another? A: LISTEN NOW…

Q: Hi Candice. I own my own business and generally do well but the last 3 months have been bleak and I’m starting to panic because my wife is still spending like I’m Elon Musk. I haven’t said anything because I don’t want her to worry. Do you have some advice on this?A: LISTEN NOWOleh Candice Mary

Q: Hey Candice. I know God says I must forgive but my wife’s infidelity is something I can’t accept. I don’t trust her anymore. I feel like I should make it work because I neglected her, and it is probably my fault she cheated but it is so difficult. What do you think?A: LISTEN NOWOleh Candice Mary

Q: Hi Candice. My son’s behavior lately is very disturbing. He speaks rudely about girls, comments on their body parts and yesterday I overheard him making sexual remarks. How do you suggest I stop this? I don’t know where it’s coming from and he is only 14. A: LISTEN NOWOleh Candice Mary

Q: Hey Candice. I’m really struggling to focus lately. The only thing I seem to be doing insanely well at the moment is procraste. I just can’t snap out of it. What should I do?A: LISTEN NOWOleh Candice Mary

Q: Hi Candice. A few of my friends, and myself, have gotten divorced because the romance and excitement was long gone. We all agree that the chemistry was probably never there to begin with. What’s your take on this?A: LISTEN NOWOleh Candice Mary

Q: Hi Candice. My wife has always been naturally reserved sexually and I think this stems from insecurity. She also has a stressful job since I’ve known her. Also, our sex has definitely decreased since getting married. I always thought it was an old man joke but I’m beginning to think marriage really does have that effect on women. I would love fo…

Q: Hi Candice. I saw your post about people who use Christianity as a mask. What are the important things to look out for? A: LISTEN NOWOleh Candice Mary

Q: Hi Candice. I’m listening to the Man Might book via Audible and I’m really enjoying it and feel inspired to be a better husband and one day great father. Have you ever heard of MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way). It’s basically the male version of the Feminazi. Men who have sworn off women completely for many reasons. They are usually very bitter a…

Q: Hey Candice. I don’t feel anything. I just got divorced and my mates can’t understand that I feel nothing. I feel nothing for her and nothing that it’s over. Shit happens. Such is life. Another one bites the dust as they say. If anything, I’m just mad that I wasted time on her. A: LISTEN NOWOleh Candice Mary

Q: Hi Candice. I’m falling in love with someone I met through work. She makes me feel so good. I feel sorry for my wife and 3 kids but I know God wants me to be happy and this is a new lease on life for me. I’m going to tell my wife before I do anything because I have integrity, I just need to know how best to tell her please. A: LISTEN NOW…

Q: Candice, I’m angry. I hate to admit it but I have been angry all my life. It’s just who I am. I’ve tried anger management. I’ve tried meds. I know men are meant to be aggressive because of testosterone. Do you think it’s just testosterone? A: LISTEN NOWOleh Candice Mary

Q: Hi Candice. I’m Dean and I’m irritated. I have the coolest mates and we usually have the best time together. Now they have invited some guys to hang with us who talk about the meaning of life and who we are. I already know, I’m Dean and I like bikes, booze and beautiful women. My friends seem to be into this shit. What is going on?A: LISTEN NOW…

Q: Hello Candice. My girlfriend and I broke up 2 years ago. I still love her and don’t want to live without her. I’ve been praying that she will come back if it is meant to be. She obviously does not feel the same because I have not heard from her. How do I accept this and move on? A: LISTEN NOWOleh Candice Mary

Q: Candice, is it possible to not want anything? To need nothing? My wife keeps on busting me about my hopes and dreams, the stuff I want and I am always like, nah, I’m cool. Things are good. She keeps asking me. I am really just happy and grateful for what God has given me. How do I make her stop? Can you call her for me? A: LISTEN NOW…

Q: Mom, does everyone have a doubleganger and do you think if your doubleganger knew about you they’d hunt you down to destroy you because they would want to be the only 1 of their kind in 7 billion? A: LISTEN NOWOleh Candice Mary

Q: Hi Candice. My wife and I were drunk and had a horrible fight two weeks ago. I threatened her and she took my daughter and left. Things have not been good for a while. We have nothing in common and I feel like God has called me to peace. I believe this is God’s will so I’m right to let it be. I’d like to schedule Coaching with you to get my life…

Q: Hey Candice. I know you personally so I’m not giving you my name but I need help and I figure if I want it straight, I should ask you. I’ve always believed in supporting my wife’s dreams but lately the only thing she cares about is attention. She is throwing herself around social media like she’s everybody’s. Now I’m not the jealous type but she…

Q: Candice, my friend is having problems with his wife and he is talking about divorce. I am single so it will suit me if he is too and I have been prompting him towards the divorce court. I can see I am the bad guy. Is it too late to fix it? A: LISTEN NOWOleh Candice Mary

Q: Hi Candice. It’s hard for me to forgive people who think they can do and say what they like but expect others to treat them differently. I read about it in your book and I just want to know what causes this? A: LISTEN NOWOleh Candice Mary

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Q: Hey Candice. Each year rolls into the next. I don’t want to be negative but I know my goals will once again be short lived. Nothing ever really changes for me. Is this normal?A: LISTEN NOWOleh Candice Mary

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Q: Hi Candice. I always feel like women use sex as a tool to get what they want out of us men. Is withholding sex intentional, is it deliberately used by women as a form of control? Obviously I wouldn’t ask my wife this. But I’d like the answer anyway. Thanks. A: LISTEN NOWOleh Candice Mary

Q: Hey Candice. My wife tells me that sex is not that important. Can I change her mind?A: LISTEN NOWOleh Candice Mary

Q: Today’s Ask Candice question is from 35 year old Josh in London. Hi Candice. I’m Josh, 35, and I have a feeling that alcohol is f**cking up my life. I don’t have to drink every day but when I do I have to have as many as possible. If I don’t drink, I’m completely anti-social and would rather go lie on my bed and watch TV than talk to my wife or …

Q: Hey Candice. I’m 37 and I really want to know why I’m so bored. I have a smart and beautiful wife and we do fun things to keep us going. Thing is, apart from the adventures, it’s the same shit every day. We’ve had our kids and sometimes I wonder if any of us are built to be with one person forever. Is it just me? Or is it a guy thing? Don’t get …

Q: Hi Candice. I haven’t given you my real name. It’s hard to send this even with an alias. I grew up knowing that real men don’t cry, if you can’t solve everything you’re not a man, if people don’t do what you say, they don’t respect you. I don’t think I’ve had an honest or vulnerable conversation since I was 11. I won’t risk looking weak to anybo…