Hey Friends! Our greatest passion is helping people experience healthy and thriving relationships. From marriage to faith to yourself, we want all of your relationships to flourish. Meet with us every week, as we discuss how to be successful in all your relationships. Pull up a chair at our virtual table and join the conversation.See MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.com
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Christine Eartheart, Founder of the Center for Thriving Relationships, interviews some of the most inspiring luminaries, thought leaders, and researchers of our time to gain their unique insights on every imaginable aspect of how to experience more love, healing, and understanding in all our relationships. Each episode will open your heart and give you incredible a-ha’s, concrete takeaways, revelatory ways of seeing yourself and others, and an opportunity to experience a more joyful, ease-fi ...
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Toxic Things We Say: "Sex Positive"
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SERIES: Toxic Things We Say There are a lot of popular phrases accepted in culture right now in the name of things like mental health, freedom and love. However, could these claims that are supposedly helpful actually be extremely toxic to us? Proverbs 14:12 says, “There is a way that appears to be right, but in the end it leads to death.” In this …
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Toxic Things We Say: "Be True to Yourself"
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SERIES: Toxic Things We Say There are a lot of popular phrases accepted in culture right now in the name of things like mental health, freedom and love. However, could these claims that are supposedly helpful actually be extremely toxic to us? Proverbs 14:12 says, “There is a way that appears to be right, but in the end it leads to death.” In this …
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Toxic Things We Say: "You Only Live Once"
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SERIES: Toxic Things We Say There are a lot of popular phrases accepted in culture right now in the name of things like mental health, freedom and love. However, could these claims that are supposedly helpful actually be extremely toxic to us? Proverbs 14:12 says, “There is a way that appears to be right, but in the end it leads to death.” In this …
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Toxic Things We Say: "Whatever Makes You Happy"
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SERIES: Toxic Things We Say There are a lot of popular phrases accepted in culture right now in the name of things like mental health, freedom and love. However, could these claims that are supposedly helpful actually be extremely toxic to us? Proverbs 14:12 says, “There is a way that appears to be right, but in the end it leads to death.” In this …
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Healthy Communication: Communication That Hurts
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SERIES: Healthy Communication There are ways we communicate and things we do or say that are hurtful to our relationships. So, today we're going to talk about the things NOT to do when communicating. Because until we can recognize what these are the more we'll be able to embrace healthy communication principles and techniques that will bring flouri…
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Healthy Communication: How to Talk Through the Tough Stuff
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SERIES: Healthy Communication One of the biggest problems in communication is talking about the tough stuff. We oftentimes either make it worse, or we just avoid the tough stuff altogether. But the thing is, if you want to have rich, meaningful, long-lasting relationships, then you have to practice talking through the hard things well. So, we've cr…
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Healthy Communication: Staying Connected
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SERIES: Healthy Communication This series has been all about how to communicate well in your relationships. Because when our relationships are filled with miscommunication that often leads us to disconnection. Do you feel disconnected in your relationships? Or maybe you feel connected but want to learn how to keep it that way? Today we'll talk abou…
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Healthy Communication: Different Folks, Different Strokes
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SERIES: Healthy Communication If you've ever played Charades you know how difficult it can be to communicate. Now imagine you can only communicate that way. Oy. But doesn't it feel like that's the truth at times? Like you’re trying to get your point across but they never understand? It's as if you each speak a different language. It's probably beca…
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Healthy Communication: Texting Rules for Relationships
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SERIES: Healthy Communication Remember passing notes? This was pre-cell phone era for those of you non-millenials. We loved passing notes! There was an element of danger because your teacher could catch you at any moment, but sometime what you had to say was just too worth it. Texting has been the adult form of passing notes since cell phones becam…
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Healthy Communication: The Biggest Reason We Miscommunicate
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SERIES: Healthy Communication Most problems in Relationships come down to miscommunication. Because lack of clarification = frustration. We want you to have thriving relationships, but that means you must do the work to communicate well. This episode in particular, we'll take a look at how our family culture and our family background play a huge pa…
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Porn: How to Win the Battle - Ep. 3
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SERIES: How to Support Your Porn Addicted Husband The last few weeks we've discussed why he struggles with pornography and how we, as women and wives, can partner with our husband in the path to recovery. Today, we'll switch from a defensive stance to an offensive. Because so often we wait until pornography becomes a problem before being his refuge…
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Porn: What’s Her Role in This? - Ep. 2
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SERIES: How to Support Your Porn Addicted Husband Many of us have faced the difficulties and heartbreaks that surround sexual addiction. Gordon and I have had the unfortunate experience of this in our own life. Ladies, oftentimes your natural response to this betrayal is: “I hurt too much to help.” “Why should I help? It’s not my problem” “Why can’…
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Porn: Why Does He Struggle? - Ep. 1
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SERIES: How to Support Your Porn-Addicted Husband Porneia. It is the root word of Pornography. And it’s the Greek word Paul uses in 1 Corinthians 6:13, translated as “sexual immorality.” In the next couple of weeks, we’re going to focus on the issue of pornography because it's deeply personal to us both and something we protect ourselves against da…
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Do you long for one of those marriages that always seem really happy? Isn’t this why we get married, why we don’t want to be single? But then Roommate Syndrome kicks in. Things don’t feel the same… You look at those happy couples and think: How do they have that and we don't? They must have just found “the One” But the truth is, no matter where you…
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Step 4: Feel the Rhythm! Feel the Rhyme! (Crushin' Anxiety)
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SERIES: Crushin' Anxiety Definition of Anxiety: anxiety is what we feel when we are worried, tense, or afraid. Particularly about things that are about to happen, or which we think could happen in the future. We all feel anxious sometimes. But it's about how we respond that will determine if we "suffer" from it. This whole series we've talked throu…
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Soulmates, Self Worth & Becoming More Magnetic with Liesel Rigsby & Christine Eartheart
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Liesel Rigsby and I met 10+ years ago at a workshop in Joshua Tree, California, and I was instantly drawn to her wisdom, soulfulness, depth, intuitive spirit, and luminous presence. She is also founder of the internationally renowned Soulmate School, which instantly lit up my heart when we met. 😍 And she is known and beloved for her unique ability …
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Gordon is the king of celebrations and making a girl feel special. Ever since we began dating all those years ago he has done something to make the day special. Does it always have to be a BIG event? No. Should he just do nothing? Well, no ;) It's just about doing something - ya man's gotta put in some work! Ok, Ladies too...sometimes ;) Maybe you …
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Step 3: Can’t take my eyes off of You (Crushin' Anxiety)
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SERIES: Crushin' Anxiety We all feel anxious sometimes. But it's about how we respond that will determine if we "suffer" from it. Because God is good, He gives us step-by-step instructions on how to handle our anxieties (so good!). Paul says the first thing we need to do when we start feeling anxious is to remember where we place our hope, which is…
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Step 2: Throw ya hands in the air! (Crushin' Anxiety)
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SERIES: Crushin’ Anxiety We all feel anxious sometimes. But it's about how we respond that will determine if we "suffer" from it. Because God is good, He gives us step-by-step instructions on how to handle our anxieties (so good!). Paul says the first thing we need to do when we start feeling anxious is to remember where we place our hope. But ther…
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Step 1: So Fresh & So Clean (Crushin' Anxiety)
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SERIES: Crushin’ Anxiety Do you ever feel anxious? Or fearful? Well, you're not alone. One study revealed that 40 Million Americans currently have an Anxiety Disorder. We get it! Statistics can be overwhelming, but they prove where our culture is at right now. And our "go-to" response to ease our worries isn't helping. Cures like numbing out on XYZ…
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How to Set Goals that Actually Work (Goals Getaway - Pt 2)
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SERIES: Goals Getaway Most Resolutions, Dreams, and Goals fail. Simply because most of us go about it all wrong. Today we discuss how to set up goals that actually work and set you up for success. See MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.com
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What Our Yearly Retreat Looks Like (Goals Getaway - Pt 1)
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SERIES: Goals Getaway Married Friends: Do you ever feel disconnected in your marriage? Your family? Do you ever notice that you’re not on the same page? Are you constantly fighting about how you should spend your time, your money, or even how to raise your kids? Single Friends: Does your life ever feel like a treadmill? You’re active and busy and w…
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Sexual Healing, Keeping Passion Alive, & Tantra with Dr. Willow Brown and Leah Piper
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❤️ IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN 1:53 A traumatic event at 19 became the catalyst for Dr. Willow’s life work around sexuality 4:22 Piper’s reconciliation of sexuality and spirituality 8:46 Shining a light on what’s not working for people’s sexuality in their relationships 13:33 How we can look at love and sexuality as an art form 16:45 Rather than …
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SERIES: Boundaries Uncovering Your “Yes” in a World of Opportunity The rise in technology over the last 30 years has led to tons of change, but not all for the better. Our social and communication skills have both decreased, not to mention an increase in miscommunication. We are addicted to overstimulation and overspending (Have to buy the latest _…
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SERIES: Boundaries Uncovering Your “Yes” in a World of Opportunity Studies show that money is one of the #1 causes of extreme stress & anxiety in our country. We are in severe debt, not to mention the rising cost of living. OY. Here's the good news! The difference between surviving vs. thriving or anxiety vs. peace in relation to money doesn't nece…
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SERIES: Boundaries Uncovering Your “Yes” in a World of Opportunity See MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.comOleh Tarah + Gordon Avery
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SERIES: Boundaries Uncovering Your “Yes” in a World of Opportunity See MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.comOleh Tarah + Gordon Avery
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Science of Creating Secure Attachment with Dr. Sue Johnson & Christine Eartheart
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❤️ IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN 2:25 What Dr. Sue witnessed wasn't working in people’s relationships and how that inspired her to dive into more research around attachment and develop Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples 11:42 Why it's not enough to be a great communicator and why emotional connection is paramount 21:05 The impact of feeling sa…
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Boundaries Between Work + Rest
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SERIES: Boundaries Uncovering Your “Yes” in a World of Opportunity Our culture is exhausted. Emotionally, physically, mentally & spiritually. We don’t know how to rest. We don’t know how to work. We have no "balance" between work & rest. So, what do we do? See MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.com See MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.com…
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SERIES: Boundaries Uncovering Your “Yes” in a World of Opportunity F.R.I.E.N.D.S We want the ideal from this 90's sitcom, but just don't know how to get the real thing. Many of our friendships these days are non-committal and disloyal. We have difficult conversations via text rather than in person. And let's not even touch on how much gossip and sl…
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Creating Authentic Relationships with Dawn Kutza, PhD & Christine Eartheart
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❤️ TIMESTAMPS ❤️ 2:38 - The inspiration behind Dawn’s work in relationships with Millennials and Gen X 11:59 - How different generations view relationships, security, success and the need to maintain the full expression of ourselves and not lose ourselves in partnership 15:15 - The important foundation we must build before we search for partnership…
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SERIES: Boundaries Uncovering Your “Yes” in a World of Opportunity Maneuvering an adult relationship with parents can be difficult - from unsolicited advice and enabling to a complete absence of their presence. There's often a lack of boundaries somewhere in the relationship that leads to conflict and tension. So, how do we set boundaries around th…
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SERIES: Boundaries Uncovering Your “Yes” in a World of Opportunity Have you ever felt disconnected from your spouse? Maybe sometimes you feel like you're in it alone? Many married people go about life living like roommates or even experienced the hurt of unfaithfulness in the marriage. Oftentimes the extreme feelings of bitterness, resentment, or c…
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SERIES: Boundaries Uncovering Your “Yes” in a World of Opportunity We are surrounded possibly more than ever by toxic/unhealthy relationships. The results aren't good: 1) we're lonely and stressed, 2) our mental, physical, and emotional health is deteriorating, and 3) anxiety and depression have spiked! These are personal results from relationships…
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SERIES: Men + Women How to Come Together as Male and Female Over the course of this series, we've discussed our core differences, the intrinsic value that each of us brings to the table, and how each of us is wired uniquely. The big question we've been asking (and answering) has been, how do we love each other better as men and women? What is it th…
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Pt. 5 Why Would You Think That!? (Men + Women)
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SERIES: Men + Women How to Come Together as Male and Female This series has 2 Arcs. The 1st Arc, which we've been in this whole series, is all about the principles. The 2nd Arc, which we'll jump into today, is about practicalities. Why are women so complicated? Why do men just not get it? It may seem there is no logic or reasoning behind the madnes…
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Pt. 4 Sins, Curses, and Who Started it? (Men + Women)
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SERIES: Men + Women How to Come Together as Male and Female God desired for us to love each other well but…It feels like Men + Women are at War with each other. Where did this war begin? We blame each other for the bad things we do as men + women. Who’s fault is it anyway? Who started this eternal fight? And why do we do the horrible things we do a…
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Pt. 3 Women: Our Core Questions, Fears, and Longings (Men + Women)
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SERIES: Men + Women How to Come Together as Male and Female The first step in loving each other well as men + women is accepting that we are different, but equally valued by God (Pt. 1 in this series). The next step is to understand what those core differences are. Ladies: What do you long for deeply? What question do you hope to find an answer to …
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Pt 2. Men: Our Core Questions, Fears, and Longings (Men + Women)
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SERIES: Men + Women How to Come Together as Male and Female The first step in loving each other well as men + women is accepting that we are different, but equally valued by God (Pt. 1 in this series). The next step is to understand what those core differences are. Men, we're coming at you first! We'll tackle topics like what's a man's core fear? W…
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Pt 1. Is Equality the Goal? (Men + Women)
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SERIES: Men + Women How to Come Together as Male and Female God desired for us to love each other well but…it feels like Men and Women are at war with each other. So, how do we love each other better as men and women? This series has 2 Arcs. The 1st Arc is about the core principles of who we are as Men + Women. While the 2nd Arc is about practical …
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Mindful Approach to Anger, Uncomfortable Feelings, & Boundaries with Juna Mustad & Christine Eartheart
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❤️ IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN… ❤️ 2:59 - As a past people-pleaser, hear about the journey that inspired Juna to get into living authentically and embracing her anger 6:11 - What it looks and feels like to have an unhealthy relationship with anger and the difference between "erupting" and "stuffing" 8:40 - A closer look at why anger is healthy in…
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Neuroscience of Attraction, Conflict, & Relating with Alex Nashton & Christine Eartheart
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❤️ IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN… ❤️ 6:35 - What happens in the brain when we fall in love and why we are attracted to certain people 17:50 - What happens in the brain when long term love loses its allure and we start to get pulled to other people 26:18 - Whether or not we can change who we feel attracted to 34:20 - What to do if you aren't sure if…
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Relationships, Addictions, & Codependency: The Pathway to Healing, with Nikki Myers and Christine Eartheart
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In this interview, we talk about... 2:38 - Hear the lens through which Nikki approaches her work with addictions to create a sense of wholeness with herself and others 7:33 - Nikki defines addiction as the disease of the “lost self” 10:15 - A closer look at addictions, from Amazon purchases to alcohol, and how we are culturally conditioned to conti…
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2 Key Words to Transform Conflict & Create Peace with Neale Donald Walsch, NY Times Bestselling author of Conversations with God
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Join us for this soulful conversation with Neale Donald Walsch, 7x NY Times Bestselling author of the "Conversations with God" series -- which has been translated into 37 languages around the world and read by millions of people looking to gain universal spiritual principles for everyday life. If you are looking to grow spiritually in your relation…
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The Science of Stress in Modern Relationships with Dr. Amelia Nagoski & Christine Eartheart
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I had the absolute delight of sitting down with Dr. Amelia Nagoski, NY Times Bestselling book of "Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle." Anyone in a relationship has undeniably discovered the negative impacts of stress, not only on our individual health (in mind, body, heart, and spirit) but also on the health of our connection (par…
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How to Enjoy Every Season of Life Our Secret to Finding Contentment in Every Stage of Life When I (Tarah) started this online business, I didn’t know that it would take me 3+ years to even get it barely off the ground. It's changed a lot since those days. Now it's the 2 of us and we are still in the early stages of our business. You could say we ar…
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How to Get Your Partner on Board with Personal Growth with Sarah Jenks and Dr. Jonathan Brajtbord and Host, Christine Eartheart
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"I'm passionate about personal growth, but my partner isn't, and I feel like they're holding me back." If you've ever had that thought, this episode is 100% for you! YOU’LL LEARN… 4:07 - Hear how Jonathan, despite being a "modern man," fell into traditional gender roles behind closed doors 7:35 - Encouragement for women to be really honest about wh…
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Save Dating for Marriage. (Healthy + Thriving Dating - Pt 6)
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SERIES: Healthy + Thriving Dating Ancient Wisdom in a Modern Context. Isn't if funny how dating can sometimes go down the drain after marriage? We get it. Life gets busy, especially when you add kids to the mix. But to set yourself up for long term happiness and connection, we have to spend time together. Maybe we have dating all backwards? Could i…
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God is a Fan of Sex. (Healthy + Thriving Dating - Pt 5)
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SERIES: Healthy + Thriving Dating Ancient Wisdom in a Modern Context. Healthy and thriving dating is all about setting yourselves up for great success in marriage. Because for most of us, marriage is the ultimate goal. But when is comes to sex and dating, we couldn't be farther away from marital success. Cultures way of preparing us is setting us u…
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4 Habits of Healthily Attached Couples with Katherine Woodward Thomas
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I had the great pleasure of sitting down with Katherine Woodward Thomas, NY Times Bestselling author of the famous "Calling in the One" and "Conscious Uncoupling" books. In this interview, we talk about... 11:00 ❤️ Reframing societal norms on how we view divorce and long-term relationships 14:30❤️ How our attachment style impacts our ability to be …
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