DWC 078: Surviving Unimaginable Trauma with Aziza Kibibi

'Deepen with Christina' by Christina Weber

In this powerful podcast episode, Christina talks with Aziza Kibibi, sister of Christina's late friend Om Bomani Ayinde, who tragically took his own life in 2016. As they delve into Om's past, Christina uncovers a history of trauma rooted in the siblings' childhood. Aziza, an author, podcaster, activist, and survivor, bravely shares her experiences of abuse at the hands of her father, Aswad Ayinde, including incest, sexual assault, pedophilia, rape, sodomy, and physical violence. Aswad, the director of The Fugees' award-winning video for “Killing Me Softly," is currently serving a 90-year prison sentence for his crimes. Glamour magazine has described the facts of this story as "dark and deeply disturbing." In the episode, Christina and Aziza bond over their shared love for Om, and together they work to understand the impact of these harrowing events. Despite the abuse she suffered, Aziza has emerged as a bold and brilliant figure, gaining widespread attention on Instagram @azizakibibi and in the media for her authentic storytelling. She maintains a healthy outlook on life, love, and sex, making this a conversation you won't want to miss. Check out Aziza's book, "Unashamed: a life tainted...," available online, and tune into her podcast "Self Published" through her website azizakibibi.com/links. Learn more about her non-profit "Precious Little Ladies," which raises awareness about abuse, supports affected individuals, and sparks conversations on the human condition, resilience in the face of trauma, and personal growth.

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