Think Faster, Talk Smarter: An Engaging Conversation with Stanford Professor | Matt Abrahams

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Welcome back to the Do Good to Lead Well podcast, where the art and science of communication takes center stage. Join us as we engage with Stanford professor and communication maestro, Matt Abrahams, discussing the secrets unveiled in his best-selling book "Think Faster, Talk Smarter." From the power of open-ended questions to the finesse required for a graceful exit from a conversation, we cover it all and ensure that you walk away with skills that transcend the ordinary, transforming every interaction into a moment of engaging connection. Through a combination of science, neuroscience and applied practice, Matt brings a wealth of knowledge that will sharpen your ability to communicate.

This episode isn't just about mastering the high-stakes world of spontaneous dialogue; it's about the nuances of everyday interactions. Listen in as we explore the underestimated skill of small talk, revealing how to navigate social exchanges with confidence and purpose. Discover the importance of asking open-ended questions, learn the art of exiting conversations without awkwardness, and appreciate the power of listening—skills that transform small talk from a dreaded chore into an opportunity for meaningful connections. Whether you're remote or face-to-face, we've got tips to help you communicate more effectively and engage listeners with greater equity and impact.

Finally, we dive into the soft skills that often go unnoticed but can significantly influence our interactions. Unpack the strengths of introversion and how humor and cultural understanding play pivotal roles in effective communication. We also examine the evolving landscape of digital communication, including the strategic use of emojis and the importance of feedback in building a culture of open dialogue.

This episode promises to equip you with the tools necessary for becoming a more empathetic and impactful communicator in your personal and professional lives. Tune in, subscribe, and join us on this transformative journey to elevate your communication prowess.

What You’ll Learn:

• How to Conquer the Fear of Impromptu Speaking

• The Strategic Art of Small Talk

• Hybrid Communication: Best Practices

• The Strengths of Introverts for Effective Communication

• Navigating Cultural Nuances

• Using Humor to Create Connection

• Why Empathy is the Key Ingredient to Navigate Conflict

• The Perils and Promise of Emojis

• Effective Feedback Techniques

• Improving Our Communication Is A Lifelong Journey

Podcast Timestamps:

(00:00) – The Power and Promise of Effective Communication

(10:33) - Mastering Small Talk and Impromptu Communication

(17:40) – Equity and Engagement in Communication

(23:24) - Leveraging Lessons from Introversion, Humor, and Cultural Awareness to Elevate Your Impact

(31:55) – Communication Secrets for Navigating Conflict

(45:21) - Effective Use of Emojis and Feedback to Enhance Connection

Key Topics Discussed:

Communication Skills, Small Talk, Hybrid Communication, Humor, Conflict Management, Emojis, Feedback, Virtual Communication, Managing Anxiety, Public Speaking, Active Listening, Empathy, Radical Candor, Improvisation

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Matt Abrahams is a renowned expert in communication, celebrated for his dynamic roles as a Stanford University lecturer, author, and podcast host. He teaches strategic communication at Stanford's Graduate School of Business, where he received the prestigious Alumni Teaching Award. As a sought-after keynote speaker and communication consultant, Matt has coached presenters for high-stakes events such as IPO roadshows, TED Talks, and World Economic Forum presentations. He hosts the award-winning podcast "Think Fast, Talk Smart" and has authored books like "Think Faster, Talk Smarter" and "Speaking Up without Freaking Out," which offer practical strategies for confident and effective communication.

Website: https://mattabrahams.com/

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