220: The Four Tendencies: A framework by Gretchen Rubin

Happier At Work®

In today's solo episode, I delved into the intriguing concept of the Four Tendencies by Gretchen Rubin. I share my own personal experience of discovering "The Happiness Project" at Powell's Bookstore in Portland, Oregon, which sparked my journey into personal development. This led me to explore Rubin's work and, in particular, "The Four Tendencies."

I discussed the four tendencies: the Obliger, the Upholder, the Questioner, and the Rebel, and how they respond to both internal and external expectations. Understanding these tendencies can shed light on how we meet expectations and interact within our work environments.

Knowing your tendency can provide valuable insights into how you approach tasks, goals, and accountability at work. Are you the Obliger, thriving on external accountability but struggling to meet your internal expectations? Are you the Upholder, readily meeting both inner and outer expectations? Perhaps you resonate with the Questioner, challenging external expectations to transform them into internal motivations. Or maybe you identify with the Rebel, navigating a unique approach to expectations by finding identity in personal choices.

The main points throughout this podcast include:

• The four tendencies: the Obliger, the Upholder, the Questioner, and the Rebel.
• How the four tendencies respond to both internal and external expectations
• How we meet expectations and interact within our work environments.
• The importance of personal development for success.

This framework can profoundly impact teamwork, productivity, and overall workplace happiness. I encourage you to reflect on the tendencies and share your thoughts. Which tendency resonates with you, and how can understanding it empower you to achieve your professional goals?

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Previous Episodes:

https://happieratwork.ie/85-why-delivering-effective-and-constructive-feedback-at-work-is-so-vital-with-aoife-obrien/

https://happieratwork.ie/209-cultivating-self-awareness-at-work-with-nia-thomas/

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