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Show Notes 00:00:00 - 00:02:06 - Introduction and Buffy the Vampire Slayer Discussion

• Rebekah shares her thoughts on the Thanksgiving episode of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, focusing on the portrayal of the Native American Chumash tribe.
• Sam criticizes the episode for its handling of racial topics, noting that it features white characters discussing Thanksgiving without proper insight.
• Rebekah mentions that James Marsters (who played Spike) is available on Cameo and humorously suggests she would love a personalized message.

00:02:06 - 00:03:20 - Debate on Representation and Context

• Sam expresses that the episode lacked depth and critical thinking about race and history.
• Rebekah defends the episode, emphasizing the importance of considering the time and context in which it was made.
• They agree to revisit TV shows from that era in a future episode after doing more research.

00:03:20 - 00:06:17 - Desire for Vacation and Personal Reflections

• The conversation shifts to lighthearted topics, including a desire to go on vacation.
• Rebekah expresses a desire to talk about herself and acknowledges that it might upset some people.
• She reflects on the purpose of the podcast being a platform to discuss things she cares about.

00:06:17 - 00:11:15 - Discussion on Rebekah's Documentary and Impact

• Rebekah plays an AI-generated segment praising her documentary Running with My Girls.
• The AI voices discuss the film's relevance to the 2024 election and its exploration of barriers faced by underrepresented communities, especially women of color.
• Rebekah reflects on her difficulty accepting positive feedback and her focus on the negative.
• She questions whether her aggressive approach to anti-racism is effective.

00:11:15 - 00:15:34 - Reflection on Delivery and Messaging

• Sam advises Rebekah on the importance of delivery in messaging, suggesting that people are more receptive to messages delivered in a palatable way.
• Rebekah considers whether her approach might be turning people away.
• They discuss the importance of being true to oneself while also considering how messages are received.

00:15:34 - 00:19:59 - Effectiveness of Anti-Racism Education

• Rebekah mentions feedback from previous guests about aggressive anti-racism education post-George Floyd.
• She questions whether this approach was effective, noting that people often don't listen regardless of how the message is delivered.
• Sam emphasizes the importance of planting seeds and that it's not their responsibility to ensure how others cultivate them.

00:19:59 - 00:25:33 - Challenges in Communication and Personal Growth

• Rebekah expresses frustration with repeating the same approaches without achieving desired results.
• They discuss the dynamics of their podcast and its purpose.
• Sam reiterates the importance of focusing on their personal fulfillment and the audience that appreciates their authentic selves.

00:25:33 - 00:31:00 - Addressing Personal Relationships and Boundaries

• Rebekah addresses her friends directly, particularly white women in Denver, discussing feelings around a "blue bracelet" incident.
• She encourages listeners to reflect on their behaviors and interactions with her.
• She sets boundaries on how she wishes to be approached and communicated with.

00:31:00 - 00:38:35 - The Impact of Masking and Authenticity

• Sam shares personal experiences about the toll of masking and not being authentic due to societal pressures.
• They discuss the physical and emotional impacts of living under oppressive systems.
• Rebekah acknowledges the challenges and emphasizes the importance of being one's true self.

00:38:35 - 00:47:00 - Discussion on DEI Backlash and Metrics of Success

• Rebekah brings up the recent corporate pullback on Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) initiatives.
• She reflects on the ineffectiveness of certain approaches to anti-racism and DEI.
• Sam suggests reevaluating metrics of success and focusing on impacts closer to home.

00:47:00 - 00:55:00 - Conversations on Identity Politics and the Black Community

• Rebekah discusses the complexities of rooting for everyone within one's racial group, citing examples like Herschel Walker.
• She reflects on the challenges within the Black community and her own experiences with certain ideologies.
• The hosts touch on issues of misogyny and internal community dynamics.

00:55:00 - 01:13:00 - Deep Dive into Dr. Sebi

• Rebekah plays an AI-generated segment providing a deep dive into Dr. Sebi's life, philosophy, and controversies.
• The AI voices discuss his beliefs about mucus being the root of all diseases, his alkaline diet, and legal troubles.
• They explore how his teachings intersected with cultural identity, alternative medicine, and skepticism towards mainstream institutions.

01:13:00 - 01:20:00 - Reflection on Dr. Sebi and Misinformation

• Rebekah and Sam discuss their perspectives on Dr. Sebi.
• Rebekah expresses concerns about how Dr. Sebi's teachings have impacted communities and contributed to misinformation.
• They debate the importance of scientific evidence versus anecdotal experiences and indigenous knowledge.

01:20:00 - 01:24:30 - Introducing Fanbase Platform

• Rebekah introduces a new platform called Fanbase, a Black-owned social media and monetization platform founded by Isaac Hayes III.
• She expresses interest in moving her content there and encourages listeners to check it out.
• They discuss the benefits of the platform for content creators.

01:24:30 - End - Closing Remarks and Call to Action

• Rebekah and Sam wrap up the episode.
• They express gratitude to their listeners and patrons.
• Rebekah records a promotional message for TikTok about an upcoming live performance and encourages followers to support her on Fanbase.
• They invite listeners to engage with them through various platforms and to leave messages or feedback.

Additional Links and Resources

• Running with My Girls - Rebekah's documentary.
• Fanbase - Link to Fanbase platform
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Disclaimer

The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the hosts and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of any affiliated organizations.

Note: This episode contains discussions on sensitive topics such as racism, misogyny, and health misinformation. Listener discretion is advised.