How to have difficult conversations, Well - w. Michelle Thompson
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How do you see conflict?
For me, Jon, until 10 years ago I saw conflict as
... something to avoid
... a sign that you were angry (or a jerk)
... the thing that people with bad relationships did
I know, not a super helpful approach (I share my learnings and more here)
My guest, Michelle Thompson, reframed how I see conflict - and will for you too.
She helped me see conflict is
... something to engage in
... a sign you care about the person
... the thing healthy people do to make things healthy
Michelle, Sr. Director of Coaching and Consulting at Concordia-Irvine shares:
- How conflict done well can actually bond us together
- How engaging in conflict can increase empathy (MUST hear story!)
- How to balance relationships and results in tough conversations
- Why conflict is needed to create healthy, high performing teams
Check out this episode, and confidently engage in the next hard conversation.
Find more about Michelle at:
Michelle Thompson | michelle.thompson@cui.edu
LinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/growthcoachmichelle
Concordia | https://www.cui.edu/
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1. How to have difficult conversations, Well - w. Michelle Thompson (00:00:00)
2. Navigating Conflict in Healthy Relationships (00:00:05)
3. Resolving Conflict Through Understanding and Curiosity (00:13:30)
4. Navigating Conflict and Building Relationships (00:26:35)
5. Leadership Through Conflict Resolution (00:41:51)
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