Unconditional Love in Trauma Recovery with Esther Garrett
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In this episode of the Masculine Wilderness Podcast, host Tom Perez engages in a profound conversation with Esther Garrett, a seasoned victim advocate. They explore the emotional complexities of advocacy, the importance of being present for those in crisis, and the intricate connections between domestic violence and sexual exploitation. Esther shares her journey in the field, the significance of safety planning, and the challenges faced by victims as they navigate their circumstances. The discussion also highlights the work of Safety Compass, an organization dedicated to supporting survivors and addressing the gaps in services for those affected by violence and exploitation. In this conversation, Esther Garrett and Tom Perez explore the importance of healthy relationships in advocacy work. They discuss the shift from traditional power dynamics in interviews to a more collaborative approach, the need for vulnerability in relationships, and the role of unconditional love in supporting those affected by trauma. They also highlight the significance of healthy friendships across gender lines and the impact of vicarious trauma on individuals in the anti-trafficking movement. Ultimately, they encourage listeners to engage authentically and compassionately in their spheres of influence.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to the Masculine Wilderness Podcast
02:07 Esther Garrett's Journey as a Victim Advocate
05:58 Navigating the Emotional Landscape of Advocacy
09:18 The Role of Education in Advocacy
10:54 Understanding Safety Planning in Advocacy
12:41 The Cycle of Violence and Returning to Exploiters
15:23 Connecting Domestic Violence and Sexual Exploitation
19:35 The Work of Safety Compass and Its Origins
23:34 Call-Out Scenarios in Crisis Response
28:49 The Power of Collaboration in Interviews
30:13 Redefining the Action Hero Narrative
33:40 Vulnerability and Authenticity in Relationships
36:57 The Role of Unconditional Love
39:36 The Importance of Healthy Relationships
42:51 Understanding Vicarious Trauma
45:52 Building Healthy Friendships Across Gender
52:29 Finding Beauty in the Work
54:45 Encouragement for Men in Advocacy
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