#187 Growing Up Grieving: Should Children Attend Funerals?

The Niall Boylan Podcast (They Told Me To Shut Up)

In this emotionally charged episode, Niall delves into the heart-wrenching question: Should Children Attend Funerals? The topic stems from a poignant email shared by a listener, shedding light on the profound dilemma faced by a grieving family.

The email recounts the listener's struggle after her husband's mother unexpectedly passed away, leaving them grappling with the decision of whether to bring their young children, aged 4 and 6, to the funeral. Despite her husband's insistence, the listener opted to shield their children from viewing their deceased grandmother in the open casket, citing her own traumatic experience as a child attending a funeral.

As Niall opens up the lines to callers, the discussion unfolds with contrasting viewpoints. Some callers echo the listener's sentiments, advocating for children's participation in funeral rites to foster understanding and closure. They emphasize the importance of teaching children about life and loss in a compassionate manner.

Conversely, others express reservations about exposing children to the solemnity of funerals, especially when faced with the sight of a deceased loved one. They stress the potential emotional distress and trauma it may inflict on young minds, urging for alternative ways for children to bid farewell.

Throughout the episode, Niall navigates the nuances of grief and parenting, offering empathy and guidance to callers grappling with this sensitive issue. In the wrap-up, he reflects on the poignant insights shared and provides solace to listeners seeking clarity amid their emotional turmoil.