92. Metrosexual Madness

A Jaded Gay

The term "metrosexual" emerged in the mid-1990s, coined to describe a new wave of urban, fashion-forward men who embraced grooming, fashion, and a heightened sense of personal style, challenging traditional masculinity. However, critics argue the trend appropriates “the gay aesthetic,” reinforcing stereotypes and implying that an interest in fashion and grooming is inherently linked to one's sexual orientation.
In this episode, we’re exploring the origins of “metrosexuality,” and the complex intersection between fashion, grooming, and associated stereotypes, while examining how this trend has negatively influenced the perception and societal expectations surrounding gay men and masculinity.
Related Episodes:

• Listen to Bonus 06. Loveless in Paris
• Listen to Episode 81. Are Mustaches Gay?
• Listen to Episode 89. Beyond the Brawn: Redefining Queer Masculinity (with Erick DuPree)

Additional Resources:

• Metrosexual (Merriam-Webster)
• Metrosexual (Urban Dictionary)
• Metrosexuals (Encyclopedia.com)
• Mark Simpson (Wikipedia)
• Here Come the Mirror Men: Why the Future is Metrosexual
• ‘Metrosexuals’ Were Just Straight Men Who Loved Self-Care. Right?
• Meet the Metrosexual
• What Makes Someone a Metrosexual?
• 10 Benefits of Being in a Relationship With a Metrosexual Man
• Metrosexuals Come Out
• Metrosexuality: Effeminacy, Aesthetics and Toxic Masculinity
• What Does the LGBTQIA+ Community Think of the Term "Metrosexual"?
• Tommy Pengelly

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Chapter

1. Snarky Opener (00:00:00)

2. Episode Introduction (00:00:26)

3. Metrosexuality (00:01:26)

4. Tarot (00:02:28)

5. The Term “Metrosexual” and Its Origins (00:03:36)

6. Metrosexuality’s Increase in Popularity (00:06:29)

7. Metrosexuality Traits (00:09:13)

8. Metrosexuality’s Decline (00:15:16)

9. Critiques of Metrosexuality (00:16:47)

10. Episode Closing (00:20:11)

11. Connect with A Jaded Gay (00:21:57)

12. Outtake (00:23:49)