Ep# 169: Belief Systems and Frustration

Coffee With Dr. Kashey

In this episode, Dr. Kashey embarks on a comprehensive exploration of the foundational components of frustration, exploring the intricate interplay of stimuli and responses that shape our diverse outcomes. Driven by his mission to understand and mitigate the impact of frustration on our lives, Dr. Kashey revisits critical concepts such as "double trouble," where encountering frustration becomes permission for self-inflicted frustration, often leading to destructive outcomes. The significance of the space between stimulus and response takes center stage, focusing on the influential role of one's belief system (BSU) in shaping cognitive and behavioral responses. Dr. Kashey explains the four domains of frustration- operational, emotional, achievement, and fairness and introduces the frustration sensitivity index as a tool for categorizing and understanding different frustrations. The Variable Outcome Principle challenges conventional views, revealing that individual responses to the same stimulus vary due to differing frustration sensitivity indexes. Dr. Kashey urges viewers to question their belief systems about frustrating stimuli, emphasizing the impact on cognitive-behavioral responses and outcomes.