Cheating is Cheating - A Unified Look at Monogamy & ENM Agreements

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In this episode of "Information for Life - Insights and Ideas to Navigate Your World," we delve into the complex topic of cheating in relationships. Titled "Cheating is Cheating: A Unified Look at Monogamy & ENM Agreements," we explore the differences in how cheating is defined and experienced in monogamous and ethically non-monogamous (ENM) relationships. Our discussion covers the unique features of each relationship type, factors contributing to cheating, the impact on partners, and the importance of communication and trust. Join us as we challenge stereotypes and misconceptions and shed light on the dynamics of modern romantic relationships.
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Chapter

1. Cheating is Cheating - A Unified Look at Monogamy & ENM Agreements (00:00:00)

2. Cheating and Ethical Non-Monogamy Comparisons (00:00:12)

3. Love, Communication, and Bold Journeys (00:11:26)