One Big Reason Behavior Charts Fail (And What You Can Do Instead)

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Have you ever worked with a student labeled as “ODD” and felt like nothing you tried was working? In this episode, I’m revisiting one of our most talked-about topics: oppositional defiant behaviors in schools. But instead of focusing on the label, we’re reframing the conversation to explore what’s really happening beneath the surface.

I’ll walk you through why traditional strategies like behavior charts often fail these students, and more importantly, how you can build stronger connections and create real change.
This episode is packed with practical strategies, fresh perspectives, and a little dose of encouragement to keep going.

Let’s rethink how we approach oppositional behaviors—and discover better ways to help our students thrive!
00:00 Welcome and Holiday Hustle

03:45 Introduction to Oppositional Defiant Disorder

08:55 Understanding and Addressing ODD

18:29 Building Relationships and Support

28:02 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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Chapter

1. Oppositional Behavior Playbook Release (00:00:00)

2. Reconsidering Oppositional Defiant Disorder (00:06:36)

3. Supporting Students With Challenging Behaviors (00:17:41)

4. Podcast Feedback and Holiday Greetings (00:31:18)