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We believe everyone who's ever been in a relationship has experienced this question! Maybe it's a lack of observation about the dynamics between you. Maybe they do know, but you don't know that they know. Really though, it’s probably just that you have different connection styles and haven't yet decoded the different ways each of you experience what connection is. Jules takes us deep into brain science to help us understand how our history-colored glasses affect our experiences of what connection is. And once again, we're encouraging you to have meta-conversations. Observe what connection feels like to each of you. And share that map with one another so you can navigate your differences. This really is an exploration of how you both experience the world differently. This practice of observing your own mind is the key to being in healthy relationships, especially under varying degrees of stress when you have to have enough safety for your brain to stay integrated.
And we also talk about what we’re actually looking for when we talk about connection: relational joy. When you dare to rock the boat with your partner, maybe you’re actually seeking a conversation about how you're co-creating moments of relational joy! Take note of what’s working that you want more of and how you're both going to make more of those moments happen.
Share your questions with us at whydoesmypartner.com/contact
If you want to dive in deeper, consider registering for our online Essential Skills Relationship Bootcamp. Open to individuals, couples and therapists. Learn more at whydoesmypartner.com/events
This podcast is not a substitute for therapy with a licensed provider.
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Let's take a moment to acknowledge our amazing sponsor The Academy of Therapy Wisdom. Jules is one of their many amazing educators. And because you listen to us, the Therapy Wisdom team is offering a secret code to give you free access to one of Jules' 1 hour Wise Conversations. Visit Therapywisdom.com or click the link in the show notes and use the ‘WDMP’ discount code."
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Manage episode 308015960 series 2892849
We believe everyone who's ever been in a relationship has experienced this question! Maybe it's a lack of observation about the dynamics between you. Maybe they do know, but you don't know that they know. Really though, it’s probably just that you have different connection styles and haven't yet decoded the different ways each of you experience what connection is. Jules takes us deep into brain science to help us understand how our history-colored glasses affect our experiences of what connection is. And once again, we're encouraging you to have meta-conversations. Observe what connection feels like to each of you. And share that map with one another so you can navigate your differences. This really is an exploration of how you both experience the world differently. This practice of observing your own mind is the key to being in healthy relationships, especially under varying degrees of stress when you have to have enough safety for your brain to stay integrated.
And we also talk about what we’re actually looking for when we talk about connection: relational joy. When you dare to rock the boat with your partner, maybe you’re actually seeking a conversation about how you're co-creating moments of relational joy! Take note of what’s working that you want more of and how you're both going to make more of those moments happen.
Share your questions with us at whydoesmypartner.com/contact
If you want to dive in deeper, consider registering for our online Essential Skills Relationship Bootcamp. Open to individuals, couples and therapists. Learn more at whydoesmypartner.com/events
This podcast is not a substitute for therapy with a licensed provider.
Mentioned in this episode:
Let's take a moment to acknowledge our amazing sponsor The Academy of Therapy Wisdom. Jules is one of their many amazing educators. And because you listen to us, the Therapy Wisdom team is offering a secret code to give you free access to one of Jules' 1 hour Wise Conversations. Visit Therapywisdom.com or click the link in the show notes and use the ‘WDMP’ discount code."
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