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29. Judging Our Life Choices: Cultural Identities and Love vs. Sex ft. Stephen Yuan

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Is there a gender difference in how we think about sex, cope with depression, and priorities in life? Stephen Yuan shares his thoughts on how he navigates a semi-open relationship, getting out of low points, and his fascination with studying porn. Stephen is a co-host on “Stories with Stephen Yuan” Podcast. This is an interesting episode because we don’t always agree with each other in this conversation.
**Content Warning: Consensual rape porn is discussed**

Highlights:

  • How to deal with your Asian identity as an Asian ex-pat in China
  • Stephen's weirdest sexual fetish experience with a woman
  • Is there a gender difference in how we cope with depression?
  • What separates love from sex?
  • How internet porn has affected millennial men and women

Takeaways:

  • We don't need to force our own coping mechanisms onto others
  • You can be clear and upfront about what you want and not be an asshole at the same time
  • We often shame and judge people based on their life choices, sexual preference, relationship style, careers etc. This hurts us all. Respect each other's choices
  • Therapy helps you recognize and process emotions instead of pretending they're not there
  • Recognize your every day wins
  • It's okay for men to "not be in the mood" as well

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Is there a gender difference in how we think about sex, cope with depression, and priorities in life? Stephen Yuan shares his thoughts on how he navigates a semi-open relationship, getting out of low points, and his fascination with studying porn. Stephen is a co-host on “Stories with Stephen Yuan” Podcast. This is an interesting episode because we don’t always agree with each other in this conversation.
**Content Warning: Consensual rape porn is discussed**

Highlights:

  • How to deal with your Asian identity as an Asian ex-pat in China
  • Stephen's weirdest sexual fetish experience with a woman
  • Is there a gender difference in how we cope with depression?
  • What separates love from sex?
  • How internet porn has affected millennial men and women

Takeaways:

  • We don't need to force our own coping mechanisms onto others
  • You can be clear and upfront about what you want and not be an asshole at the same time
  • We often shame and judge people based on their life choices, sexual preference, relationship style, careers etc. This hurts us all. Respect each other's choices
  • Therapy helps you recognize and process emotions instead of pretending they're not there
  • Recognize your every day wins
  • It's okay for men to "not be in the mood" as well

Mentions & Resources:

----

Enjoyed this episode? Share with a friend! The best way to support this show is by listening. So thank you

----

Got a topic you want us to chat about? Have a question about mental health or adulting as an Asian American? Let us know!
Send us an audio message by clicking here!

Instagram @shitwedonttellmom

Email: shitwedonttellmom@gmail.com

Support the show

The best way to support this show is by listening and sharing with a friend. If you would like to buy a coffee or bubble tea, we would love that too.

----

Instagram @shitwedonttellmom

Email: shitwedonttellmom@gmail.com

www.shitwedonttellmom.com

Send us an audio message by clicking here!

----

We use Buzzsprout as our host because they seamlessly link to major podcast platforms and make it really easy to read analytics. They also have an awesome support team. Sign up today and get a $20 Amazon gift card!

We also use Descript as our editing software because editing with text is much easier than with soundwaves. We are not audio geniuses and want to focus our energy on creating content rather than editing. Sign up today and get your first 3 months free!

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