SESSION 010 | DEAN ATTA | Masculinity, Self-Acceptance and Queerness.

Time To Talk with Alex Holmes

In this episode of Time to Talk, host Alex Holmes deeply converses with Dean Atta about his experiences with masculinity, identity, and family dynamics.

Dean shares his journey of navigating his childhood as a mixed-race boy, his relationship with masculinity, and the impact of his family, particularly his uncles and mother, on his identity.

The discussion also delves into the complexities of coming out, the perceptions of his sexuality within his family, and the importance of self-acceptance. Dean reflects on his aspirations for the future and the significance of sharing his story through his work.

Key Takeaways:

• Masculinity can be perceived as a box that limits expression.
• Family dynamics play a crucial role in shaping identity.
• Coming out is an ongoing process, not a one-time event.
• The importance of finding comfort in one's true self.
• Creative outlets can serve as a form of therapy.
• Navigating childhood experiences can be complex and challenging.
• Supportive family members can provide a sense of safety.
• Self-acceptance is key to personal growth.
• The impact of societal expectations on masculinity.
• Sharing personal stories can foster connection and understanding.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Context of Masculinity

05:56 Navigating Childhood and Gender Roles

13:18 Family Dynamics and Male Relationships

22:34 The Intersection of Performance and Masculinity

24:49 Exploring the World of Performance

30:04 The Journey into Poetry and Self-Expression

30:15 Navigating Family Dynamics and Coming Out

39:04 Reflections on Youth and Future Aspirations

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