The Trauma Within Navigating Wrestling Fandom W/ Cher Delaware

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What happens when a sport you love becomes a battleground for harassment and bias? We tackle this pressing issue head-on with Cher Delaware, a passionate wrestling fan and parent, who shares her journey of navigating the wrestling community while maintaining online anonymity for safety and privacy. From our first meeting on Twitter to unforgettable karaoke nights, Cher's story is a testament to resilience and the importance of community support. She bravely recounts her past traumas, including a childhood kidnapping and abusive relationships, and how these experiences shape her approach to life and parenting.
As we reminisce about childhood memories of iconic wrestlers like Sting and DDP, we shed light on the unique challenges female wrestling fans face, especially the biases and misconceptions that still persist. We discuss the growing presence of women in wrestling media and the distinct struggles of fans from different racial backgrounds. Despite the hostility from some male fans, our love for wrestling remains unshaken, fueled by the joy it brings to our families and the lasting memories we've created. The conversation takes a serious turn as we explore the toxic nature of fan culture and the moral dilemmas of supporting an industry with a problematic past.
Privacy in the digital age is more complex than ever, especially for those active in the wrestling community. Cher shares her humorous yet serious experiences of being mistaken for her pseudonym and the steps she takes to protect her children's identities. We reflect on the impact of the #SpeakingOut movement and the ongoing issues within the wrestling community, emphasizing the need for serious attention to accusations. Through it all, we highlight the significance of community, the importance of feeling safe at events, and the heartwarming connections forged through our shared love for wrestling. Join us as we uncover the multifaceted world of wrestling fandom, where every story matters.

Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.
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Chapter

1. The Trauma Within Navigating Wrestling Fandom W/ Cher Delaware (00:00:00)

2. Wrestling Fans' Harassment of Women (00:00:20)

3. Women's Experience in Wrestling Fandom (00:05:53)

4. Struggles With Wrestling Fandom Hostility (00:09:46)

5. Protecting Privacy and Family in Wrestling (00:23:51)

6. Wrestling Fandom Experiences and Conversations (00:28:05)

7. Navigating Wrestling Fandom and Controversy (00:33:25)

8. Importance of Community in Wrestling (00:41:44)

9. Connection Through Wrestling Fandom (00:51:57)

10. Navigating Safety in Wrestling Fandom (00:55:44)

11. Navigating Wrestling Fandom and Boundaries (01:08:59)