Assumptions = Peace Drain // How to Stop // Unpacking the Human Experience
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Assumptions.
Filling in the blanks.
Completing the picture.
To make it make sense to you.
Is costing you your peace.
There is a level of assumption that is biologically and neurologically necessary.
And then there's the trauma response assuming - which makes an ass of you and me.
Listen or watch along as I talk us through this.
How to Stop Assuming
1. Create, cultivate an awareness - Catch your assumptions and judgement in real time.
2. Pause. Breathe.
3. Ask Yourself - Do I have all the information? What don't I know? Could there be other information that I don't know?
4. Ask Yourself - Am I taking this personally? Am I inserting myself into this situation? Is it possible that this has nothing to do with me?
5. Ask Yourself - Am I being nosy? Is the curiosity, is the wanting, needing to know - costing me my peace? DO you NEED to know?
6. Ask Yourself - Is this actually important to me, my life, my family, my peace?
7. If yes - what can you do? If not, let. it. go.
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