Podcast Martinkus terbaik (2024)

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New Life Live: October 14, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Relationships, Intimacy, Divorce, Social Media, Pornography, Transgender, Grandparenting Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses how it’s hard for people to know what a secure healthy attachment looks like in healthy relationships if they’ve never been exposed to one. My husband had pros…

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New Life Live: October 11, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Dating, Affairs, Childhood Trauma, Hoarding, Self Worth, Christian Walk, Counseling, Addictions, Anger Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Stacey Sadler Smith Caller Questions & More: Becky and Dr. Alice discuss natural disasters and anxiety. I’m afraid if I tell the wonderful woman I just started dating about my cheating in the past, she…

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New Life Live: October 10, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Stress, Counseling, Pornography, Adult Children, Addictions, Incarceration, Fear, Finances, Divorce Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses mounting stress. Thank you! My husband and I provide counseling at our church from the resources you provide. I just discovered soft porn on my …

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New Life Live: October 9, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Reframe, Affairs, Intimacy, Father Issues, Estrangement, Caregiving, Eating Disorders, Anxiety Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill Hubbard shares tools for how to re-regulate yourself when you are having a hard day. I’ve been married 27yrs, was unfaithful, and am not attracted physically to…

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New Life Live: October 8, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Alcohol, Addictions, Adult Children, Estrangement, Motivation, Boundaries, Disclosure, Affairs Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Becky Brown Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice shares addiction insights from an AA recovery leader. What are your thoughts on a counselor encouraging my 19yo daughter to distance herself from me? She told …

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New Life Live: October 7, 2024 48:04

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Topics: OCD, Adult Children, Affairs, Custody, Finances, Caregiving, Grief, Sexual Integrity, Social Media Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Becky shares about infobesity and infoxication, current terms to describe information overload, and how the trail of needing to know more can lead to OCD. How do I n…

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New Life Live: October 4, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Victims, Dating, Narcissists, Disabilities, Gender Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses what it looks like to fall into victimhood mentality that keeps us stuck. On a previous show you talked about why a 43yo man should not date a 19yo; if a man can have a brand-new car off the l…

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New Life Live: October 3, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Christian Walk, Divorce, Grief, Siblings, Anger, Grandparenting Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim shares the pain of discipline vs. the pain of regret during our tougher times. Is there redemption and hope if I’ve committed the unpardonable sin? I lashed out in anger and called the Holy …

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New Life Live: October 2, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Sexual Addiction, Divorce, Mother Issues, Affairs, Betrayal, Grief Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions & More: Laura Mangin-McDonald shares about the big gap between what we desire and where we are. My husband has a sex addiction and wants a divorce; is it a good thing for me to try to stay with him?…

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New Life Live: October 1, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Sexual Integrity, Parenting, Intimacy, Adult Children, Dating, Estrangement Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim Burns shares about his new book, A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity. My wife thinks I’ve rejected her because we haven’t consummated our 4yr marriage due to me having prostate…

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New Life Live: September 30, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Attitude, Fear, Medication, Narcissists, Sexual Integrity, Emotional Affairs, Nightmares, Trauma Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Marc Cameron discusses the importance of attitude and Holocaust survivors. I’m 62yo and in fear all the time. I’m scared of the side effects of Prozac; can I get off …

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New Life Live: September 27, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Christian Walk, Boundaries, Teens, Alcohol, Finances, Elder Abuse Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui discusses the burdens we carry and taking them to the Lord. When my ex-husband wanted me to bail him out of jail, I turned him down. How should I treat him now? My soon-to-be 18…

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New Life Live: September 26, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Bipolar, Parenting, Identity, Adult Children, Sexual Integrity, Difficult Conversations, Healing Journey, Parenting, Aging Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how to recognize symptoms of bipolar disorder. What do you think about my 11yo granddaughter wanting to identify as an animal?…

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New Life Live: September 25, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Reactions, Comparisons, Childhood Trauma, Passive-Aggressive, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Siblings, Verbal Abuse, Grief Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions & More: Dr. Sheri Keffer shares her parable on how a pot of boiling water can describe what’s happening in a relationship. There are so many …

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New Life Live: September 24, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Sexual Integrity, Parenting, Affairs, Sexual Addiction, Depression, Polyamorous, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim Burns is interviewed about his new book, A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity. My husband has had affairs, and I recently walked in on him doing something in…

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New Life Live: September 23, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Anxiety, Depression, Gambling, Sexual Addiction, Friendship, Reconnection Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice Benton shares that experiencing awe, especially in nature, is a good antidote for anxiety and depression. What direction can I go if my husband has a gambling problem and goes to …

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New Life Live: September 20, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Loneliness, Separation, Intimacy, Blended Families, Adult Children, Resentment, Estrangement, Controllers Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill Hubbard shares the surprising results of new loneliness research. My wife separated because I created fake accounts online and introduced sexual fan…

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New Life Live: September 19, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Trust, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Bipolar, Father Issues, Intimacy, Grief, Blended Families Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, and presenter at Restore and Intimacy in Marriage intensives, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions & More: Laura Mangin-McDonald shares how love is free, but trust is earned. How do I navigate my 31y…

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New Life Live: September 18, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Hope, Parenting, Sexual Integrity, Sexting, False Accusations, Narcissists, Intimacy Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: Dr. Sheri Keffer shares from Nahum that God is in the whirlwind and the storm, so hold on. How do we talk to our homeschooled teens and 5yo child about sex from a Chris…

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New Life Live: September 17, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Endurance, OCD, Divorce, Parenting, Narcissists, Getting Unstuck Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: JJ West talks about fighting the good fight and finishing the race. I have been compulsively recording conversations with other people on my phone for 20yrs. How can I remain close to my children after g…

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New Life Live: September 16, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Bipolar, Siblings, Childhood Trauma, Estrangement, Dating, Grief, Parenting Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Marc Cameron explains core conflict patterns. My 54yo daughter is bipolar and has a personality disorder; how do I help her after she was in the psychiatric hospital for 2wks? Is there an…

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New Life Live: September 13, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Sexual Addiction, Sexual Integrity, Sexual Abuse, Communication, Estrangement, Affairs, Adult Children, Grief, Suicide Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: JJ West shares that the DSM-5 does not have a diagnosis for sexual addiction and it is not mentioned in the Bible; how do we recognize it? I’m battli…

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New Life Live: September 12, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Self Worth, Enabling, Adult Children, Boundaries, Controllers Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Becky Brown asks, “Who do you think you are?” My friends accuse me of enabling my son in the music industry because I gave him rent money for his birthday; how do I help him without enabling? Would it be ho…

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New Life Live: September 11, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Grief, False Accusations, Anxiety, ADD, Making Decisions, Teens, Parenting Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, and presenter at Restore and Intimacy in Marriage intensives, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions & More: Becky Brown and Laura Mangin-McDonald discuss unresolved grief on Patriot Day, and the power of naming our pain wi…

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#80: The Shame She Experiences 52:38

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So here we are! The final episode of Season #6. We start with me needing to loop back to something we discussed in the last episode where Jason said he received feedback from someone saying that sometimes when Jason mentions the past / the timeline, that he is shaming me. While I don’t think he is trying to shame me - I DO experience shame when cer…

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#79: Holding Her Hostage 39:18

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In this episode - we talk about how he can hold her hostage in the recovery process. We discuss this concept, of him holding her hostage, two different ways (or avenues or angles or well, you get the point). The first avenue is how Jason interprets “holding her hostage” which essentially is him holding her hostage for his past wounds and holding he…

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Regrouping + Resources 11:26

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It’s just me today, popping in to let you know we will be back next week with a fresh episode. I am sharing the quickest of life updates with you guys plus a reminder about a couple of resources that we offer. We are so glad YOU are here, thanks for joining us for Season #6. For those of you that are new here, check out Episode #1 for Our Story. Ma…

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#78: Going Into Public with Confidence 52:01

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As we dig into the content of this particular episode - please keep in mind that these situations are SO nuanced. So please take what we are sharing and consider how it applies to you. What we share will not work for everyone in every situation. #1 - Clearly End the Affair - Our first suggestion for regaining confidence and to be able to go back ou…

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#77: Making Friends with the Work 34:42

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As Jason said early on in this episode - recovery work is painful. It hurts, it’s scary and no wonder we resist it. Jason talks about how he went from resisting the recovery work to accepting that there was work to do. It’s in this process that we make friends with the work. As Thomas Berry, a coach on our team, says - we go from “got to TO get to”…

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#76: The Duality of Hope 44:05

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Basically, I try to take over during the first five minutes of the episode as I talk about hope. Then I pass the mic over to Jason and you will probably actually like what he says much more. I just try to sprinkle in anecdotal comments as I can, you’re welcome. Hope is a handhold for wives in the following ways… 1 - it gives women a sense of securi…

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#75: Where Empathy Develops 42:02

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Get out your thinking caps - this episode is heady and I had to rewind many many times to re-listen while I was working on these show notes. We are talking empathy (and intimacy and conviction) today. I believe that empathy is one of the key ingredients that will help her heart heal within the context of the couple-ship. So developing empathy is KE…

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#74: Intimacy Pays Dividends 49:42

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In this episode, we get real honest about a recent series of arguments we had about money, with the intent of sharing with you guys what engaging in conflict can look like in “late recovery”. Not that we do conflict perfectly or recovery perfectly (as you will surely hear) but we get questions about what life looks like today - years and years post…

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#73: The Value of Full Disclosure 40:55

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In this episode, we talk about the value of the full disclosure and some of the reasons that doing a full disclosure (for both him and for her) is incredibly beneficial. Here are some of those reasons: - for men: integration of the story and the acting out - as in, making sense of and connecting dots in his story as a whole which informs the recove…

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#72: Frontloading For Her 37:19

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In this episode, we piggyback off of the last episode on Frontloading and discuss how women can leverage this technique in order to feel safe having certain conversations with him. This technique is essentially giving him a heads up that a difficult conversation needs to be had + insuring he is in an open space to have said conversation well in adv…

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#71: Frontloading 34:57

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In this episode, we talk about Frontloading, a term we first heard from Jennifer Kolari after doing some parenting therapy with her. See the link below for her information. Frontloading is the conversation we have prior to an anticipated event (or an anticipated conversation). Keep in mind, it's about a heart attitude, not about a playbook / plan /…

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#70: When She Feels Stuck 36:50

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In this episode, we talk about her getting stuck and how this can be (not always, but can be) connected to him NOT doing good, consistent work. Jason recaps a couple of things from episode #68 - What is Good Work (definitely check out that episode if you want to learn more about what “good” work looks like - see the link below.) We discuss four big…

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#69: In the Dilemma 41:20

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So, let’s say he is doing mostly good work. Oftentimes when he is doing this mostly good work, women are faced with a dilemma. Does she accept the good work and lean into it and trust it? OR does she hold him / the good work at arm’s length and continue to watch and wait and keep herself safe? We start with exploring some of the reasons she runs in…

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#68: What exactly IS good work? 38:37

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So what exactly is good work? And what does good work look like AFTER the initial stages? Because it seems like some husbands rock that good work early on - and then… they are done?! Jason and I are both encouraging you guys to honestly assess: are the things we list happening in my / his recovery process? And if not - what might it look like to ge…

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#67: Why I Chose to Stay 48:36

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In this episode - we are diving in to a question that Shelley receives quite regularly - why did you stay? And were you / are you embarrassed that you chose to stay? We start with talking about some of the reasons that can make it embarrassing to stay - for instance, in our culture - there is this notion that when a woman is cheated on, there must …

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#66: Dealing with Relapses 48:42

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It’s show time! Here we go - Season #6 of Redemptive Living Radio is HERE. On this first episode of the season, we are talking about relapses. I realize this can be a super tender topic on all fronts. Here are some of the questions we answer: 1 - What is a relapse? - In some ways, a relapse is VERY clear and in some instances, it can seem a bit arb…

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#65: Navigating the Holidays 49:24

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Welcome back to the podcast!!! We wanted to jump in and do a bonus podcast for you guys ahead of the release of Season #6 which will air in January, 2024. While it really is a topic near and dear to Jason’s heart - it’s also a PSA for ALL of us as we prepare to be with extended family over Thanksgiving and Christmas. The holidays can be really chal…

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#64: NOT Going Back to the Way it Was 45:48

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This week on RL Radio - NOT going back to the way it was This is the final episode of Season #5. We had a hard time putting a pin in this Season - we had so much fun laughing with each other (and hopefully with you guys as you listened in). I also realize that we bring out the tears in a lot of our listeners, so for that - well, I’m grateful that y…

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#63: Moving Towards Divorce - Part 2 31:44

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This week on RL Radio - Part Two of Moving Toward Divorce with Elizabeth Picking up where we left off, I start out with a quick recap of what we discussed in part one and then we continue to dig into more of what it looks like to journey well including having hope. Elizabeth mentions this CS Lewis quote - “One day all the sad things will become unt…

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#62: Moving Towards Divorce - Part 1 31:22

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This week on RL Radio: Moving Toward Divorce - Part 1 We are delighted to have another conversation with Elizabeth from the RLW team! As you will hear, we recorded this episode in May on her, as she said, “would be” anniversary. Oh, the timing. We didn’t know this when we recorded the episode, but our podcast producers shared recently that Elizabet…

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#61: Holding Her in High Esteem 38:22

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This week on RL Radio - Holding Her in High Esteem How can he hold her in high esteem? Being able to do this is - per Jason, a "quick win" and something guys can start doing today to make a difference in the coupleship and in their recovery. Typically, because of the pain he is experiencing, he will disparage her (to offset the pain). To do this - …

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#60: A Rubric for Living Out Recovery in Life 37:55

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This week on RL Radio - A Rubric for Living Out Recovery in Life What does it look like to "live out recovery” in day to day life? Maybe he is going to groups, getting therapy, not acting out - which is all great. But sometimes (oftentimes) - that can be all that is different. He is doing life the way he’s always done it otherwise. (And side note: …

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#59: Holding the Tension Between Two Truths 37:38

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This week on RL Radio - Holding the Tension Between Two Truths In this episode we talk about holding the tension between two truths. This can be a challenge for men in recovery because of the compartmentalization that occurs with addiction. (A big part of recovery is integration - as in, breaking down those boxes.) Holding the tension between two t…

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#58: God, Where Are You? - Part 2 43:35

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This week on RL Radio - Thomas’s story - Part Two In part two, we pick up with where we left off with one more of Thomas’s rock bottoms (in addition to the others mentioned in Part One) that became a pivotal part of his upward trajectory. Ultimately, Thomas hit a place of complete surrender which propelled him toward change, movement and growth. Th…

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#57: God, Where Are You? – Part 1 44:59

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This week on RL Radio - Thomas’s story - Part One Trigger Warning: We want to make sure that you protect yourself (and your children) if you choose to listen to this episode. Thomas shares his story, starting from when he was seven years old - exposed to pornography followed by years of masturbation and progressing from there. The first twenty minu…

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#56: Empower Series - A "Who Knows" of Hope 41:16

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This week on RL Radio - part three of the Empowerment Miniseries - A “Who Knows” of Hope Oh my goodness, enjoy the first five minutes of the episode as you get a first-hand glimpse into the communication issues that are Jason and Shelley. If you don’t need any more laughs in your day, feel free to fast-forward to just shy of five minutes and you’ll…

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