Why "Just Leave" is Terrible Advice: How Narcissists Keep You Trapped

Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse

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Have you been told that you should just leave?
In this episode, Lisa Sonni and I discuss why this advice severely misses the mark. Why exiting a narcissistically abusive relationship is difficult and even dangerous for most abuse survivors.
Resources Mentioned in the Episode
The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker
Character Disturbance by George Simon
Dangerous Personalities by Joe Navarro
The Passionate Marriage by Dr. David Schnarch
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A Quick Announcement
Lisa Sonni will officially join as a full-time co-host in 2025. Welcome, Lisa! We are so excited to have you aboard.
A Special Thank You!
I’ve deeply appreciated Lisa and Rossana Faye being regular special guests this past year. I’d also like to recognize the other behind-the-scenes people who helped make this show possible, especially Joe Duncan and Arianne Bansig. Each works tirelessly to make every episode extra special. You both are amazing!
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Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., a mental health specialist and author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships, deconstructing narcissism, and understanding various other mental health-related issues. Her memoir, Love You More: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross, gives an uncensored glimpse into the dynamics of narcissistic abuse.

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1. Why "Just Leave" is Terrible Advice: How Narcissists Keep You Trapped (00:00:00)

2. [Ad] A Podcast for Adults with Parents Who Have Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (00:08:07)

3. (Cont.) Why "Just Leave" is Terrible Advice: How Narcissists Keep You Trapped (00:08:57)