The Three Most Common Relationship Mistakes and How to Avoid Them

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Welcome to another episode of The Relationship Maze!
In today's episode, "Relationship Mistakes," hosts Tom and Angela dive into some of the most common pitfalls that couples face and provide insights on how to avoid them to create happier, more fulfilling relationships. Drawing from their extensive experience with couples therapy, they explore issues like blaming your partner, the importance of honesty, and the critical role of active listening.
Whether you're looking to improve your current relationship or establish a solid foundation in a new one, this episode is packed with valuable advice. Don't forget to visit therelationshipmaze.com for more resources and subscribe to stay updated. Let's begin!
00:00 In relationships, take ownership and avoid blaming.
06:37 Past experiences influence interpretation of current events.
08:29 Blaming and protective identification in psychotherapy discussed.
11:23 Honesty in relationships is crucial for harmony.
14:50 Trust and communication build stronger relationships.
20:30 Active listening: engaging, curious, understanding partner's perspective.
22:01 Listening for intention, not just gathering information.
24:28 Active listening and empathy are crucial components.
Contact us for information about individual counselling/psychotherapy, couples therapy, clinical supervision or CPD training.
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Struggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course.
Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

Contact us for information about individual counselling/psychotherapy, couples therapy, clinical supervision or CPD training.
Tom's website
Angela's website
Struggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course.
Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

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1. The Three Most Common Relationship Mistakes and How to Avoid Them (00:00:00)

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3. (Cont.) The Three Most Common Relationship Mistakes and How to Avoid Them (00:11:42)