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Trust, Communicating, and Couples Therapy w/ Dr. Bruce Chalmer Ep 64
Manage episode 402011244 series 3370038
Ever wanted to get inside the mind of a couples therapist and ask questions? Well, in today's episode, I took full advantage of having the great couples therapist, Dr. Bruce Chalmer on and I asked some burning questions for you like:
- How to get your partner to go to therapy when they don't want to
- What's the first thing you would do if you were working with a couple with jealousy in the relationship
- Why couples get it wrong when they say their biggest issue is communication
Bruce shares the idea that couples often choose stability over intimacy and this is what he calls the "death spiral" of passion in a relationship. I loved this topic as it just brings to light how often we push away our true authentic self because we are too afraid of what someone else, in this case our partner, might think.
He also compares couples therapy to improv so you'll have to tune in to hear why.
00:02 Introduction and Guest Presentation
00:42 Overcoming Reluctance to Attend Couples Therapy
04:03 Choosing the Right Therapist: A Discussion
05:43 Communication vs. Content: A New Perspective
07:51 Understanding Jealousy in Relationships
10:17 The Role of Attraction in Relationships
17:00 The Death Spiral for Passion: Stability vs. Intimacy
20:50 Restoring Intimacy in Relationships
20:54 Dealing with Jealousy and Insecurity
21:36 Seeking Reassurance and Self-Validation
22:43 Understanding the Value of Your Partner
24:41 The Role of Fathers in a Daughter's Life
25:40 Couples Therapy and Improv Comedy
31:14 Navigating Arguments in Relationships
32:06 The Magic Key to Relationship Problems
34:20 Closing Remarks and Contact Information
Connect with Dr. Bruce Chalmer
Join the Trust Building Bootcamp Starting Soon!
Schedule your FREE, 30-minute Discovery Call to see how I can help.
Grab the 5 Must-Haves To Overcome Jealousy
Connect with Shanenn
Top Self Website
Shanenn on Instagram
Disclaimer
The information on this podcast or any platform affiliated with Top Self LLC, or the Top Self podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. No material associated with Jealousy Junkie podcast is intended to be a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment, Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding your condition or treatment and before taking on or performing any of the activities or suggestions discussed on the podcast or website.
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Trust, Communicating, and Couples Therapy w/ Dr. Bruce Chalmer Ep 64
TOP SELF | Tips on Jealousy in Relationships, Anxiety, and Insecurity
Manage episode 402011244 series 3370038
Ever wanted to get inside the mind of a couples therapist and ask questions? Well, in today's episode, I took full advantage of having the great couples therapist, Dr. Bruce Chalmer on and I asked some burning questions for you like:
- How to get your partner to go to therapy when they don't want to
- What's the first thing you would do if you were working with a couple with jealousy in the relationship
- Why couples get it wrong when they say their biggest issue is communication
Bruce shares the idea that couples often choose stability over intimacy and this is what he calls the "death spiral" of passion in a relationship. I loved this topic as it just brings to light how often we push away our true authentic self because we are too afraid of what someone else, in this case our partner, might think.
He also compares couples therapy to improv so you'll have to tune in to hear why.
00:02 Introduction and Guest Presentation
00:42 Overcoming Reluctance to Attend Couples Therapy
04:03 Choosing the Right Therapist: A Discussion
05:43 Communication vs. Content: A New Perspective
07:51 Understanding Jealousy in Relationships
10:17 The Role of Attraction in Relationships
17:00 The Death Spiral for Passion: Stability vs. Intimacy
20:50 Restoring Intimacy in Relationships
20:54 Dealing with Jealousy and Insecurity
21:36 Seeking Reassurance and Self-Validation
22:43 Understanding the Value of Your Partner
24:41 The Role of Fathers in a Daughter's Life
25:40 Couples Therapy and Improv Comedy
31:14 Navigating Arguments in Relationships
32:06 The Magic Key to Relationship Problems
34:20 Closing Remarks and Contact Information
Connect with Dr. Bruce Chalmer
Join the Trust Building Bootcamp Starting Soon!
Schedule your FREE, 30-minute Discovery Call to see how I can help.
Grab the 5 Must-Haves To Overcome Jealousy
Connect with Shanenn
Top Self Website
Shanenn on Instagram
Disclaimer
The information on this podcast or any platform affiliated with Top Self LLC, or the Top Self podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. No material associated with Jealousy Junkie podcast is intended to be a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment, Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding your condition or treatment and before taking on or performing any of the activities or suggestions discussed on the podcast or website.
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